For those who get flooded with offers after joining, how many days does it usually take before the offers are temporarily paused and die down?

Sometimes the staff will hide a woman’s profile without saying anything to her first. The criteria for making that decision vary from staff member to staff member. For example, if she gets around four offers within a few days—or sometimes even nearly all at once in a single day—they may temporarily hide her profile. Other staff may wait a week before deciding. Sometimes they ask the woman, and sometimes they don’t, so there are cases where her profile gets hidden against her wishes. Usually, they’ll say something like: “You’ve been getting so many offers that it looks like things are getting overwhelming, so we’re going to pause them for now.” If she says, “It’s okay, you don’t need to stop them,” they’ll leave her profile visible and continue accepting offers. However, if she starts going on dates every day, she’ll usually contact them around her fourth date and say something like: “I’m not feeling well, so I can’t make it to tomorrow’s date.” It’s hard for an ordinary woman to go on dates with men every single day, so they’ll pause the offers even at the point where someone might think, “Are they really stopping things already?” Even if it doesn’t get that far, they may decide to pause things when the offers become mixed up and difficult to manage. “The person on the 10th is fine at 7 p.m.” “The person on the 9th is at 6 p.m., right? Please wait while I confirm.” “The person on the 14th is at 8 p.m.? I already have plans that day, so could we move it to the 10th?” “Wait, you already have a date with Mr. ○○ on the 10th.” “Oh, sorry. Then the 11th, please.” “Could the person on the 17th change the meeting place from □ to △?” “Wait, the meeting place for the person on the 17th is ◇.” “Oh, sorry. I got them mixed up.” When things reach the point where they think, “I’m starting to lose track of what’s what,” they may decide it’s better to hide the profile as well.

Since women are usually the ones who stop accepting offers once they start pouring in, it really depends on the individual. Some women stop accepting them on the very first day, while others keep going for several days until they’ve received around 20 offers. As for women disappearing from the site, it seems they go through all the setting dates they arranged, choose someone they’re happy with, and then leave the site. One woman who received around 20 offers left after a little over a month. If they don’t find enough people they’re satisfied with, they’ll make their profile visible again and continue looking. In that case, they haven’t really disappeared. It really does vary from person to person. I wonder why so many people ask questions about things that depend on the individual.