Save money through a dating club or earn money working at a hostess club
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If you were a woman, which would you rationally choose?
Why I’m making this choice:
I can’t get hired for daytime jobs,
and people who work during the day have repeatedly made discriminatory remarks toward me,
which has made me lose the motivation to work a daytime job.
Fortunately, I was born with an average-looking face (I was also with a talent agency until recently.)
Please seriously tell me which one you would choose. Thank you.
People who leave decisions about their own lives up to others never stick with anything in the end.
That’s because any kind of work is tough to some extent—especially at first.
Either you decide for yourself what you want to become and work hard toward it, or you’re pushed to the point where you have no choice but to do it because otherwise you can’t make a living, and you steel yourself and persevere.
Even if you say you’ll receive an allowance from a papa (a male supporter) through a dating club, you may still have to put up with things you don’t like if you want to make a living from it.
It’s your life, so think for yourself.
Marika
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I’ve seen similar questions many times before.
Whenever they come up, I always say that it depends on the person, so try both and continue with whichever suits you better. If you can do both, then do both. If neither works for you, it’s okay to quit.
It’s difficult to change the people around you, but you can change yourself.
I’m not sure what exactly you mean by discrimination, but I feel that whether you can avoid being treated that way—or keep it from hurting you even if it happens—is also up to you.
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To answer seriously, I don’t think I’d choose either option.
The reason you can’t get hired for a daytime job is that you’re being too picky about the work.
Before I went to university, I took all kinds of live-in jobs—at inns, factories, resorts, and so on—without being picky about the type of work.
I’m not saying discriminatory remarks are acceptable, but a company isn’t a school. The only way to stop people from making comments like that is to build up your own skills and earn enough standing to put an end to them.
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I’m not sure whether “date club” refers to a relationship club or a delivery health service, but considering that a relationship club isn’t technically a job, it sounds like the question is probably about working at a delivery health service.
If those are the two options, a delivery health service seems more manageable even for someone who can’t get hired for a regular day job, since it doesn’t rely as heavily on communication skills.
You can’t earn money at a hostess club without good communication skills, and I’ve also heard there can be factional conflicts between the women. In the questioner’s case, since they say they’ve been subjected to discriminatory comments, I feel they might have trouble there because of similar comments from more senior women.
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In my answers, I distinguish between “date clubs,” meaning adult entertainment businesses that advertise in Kabukicho or Toganocho, and “dating clubs,” such as Universe Club.
After reading Hikokiken-san’s answer, I’d like to add this much:
Between a date club (adult entertainment) and a hostess club (the nightlife industry), I think the questioner is better suited to adult entertainment.
The reason you’re failing interviews for day jobs is probably that you have issues as a working adult. The nightlife industry requires you to communicate with people—in fact, you earn your living through communication. You probably aren’t suited to it.
In adult entertainment, you can earn money as long as your appearance and sexual services are at least average.
Also, women at dating clubs are expected to have good communication skills, so I don’t think you’re suited to that either.
Everyone has different aptitudes, so rather than answering based on what I would do if I were a woman, I’ve answered based on how I see you.
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Typical examples would be:
At a dating club, the men tend to be quietly lecherous but calm and comforting. They’re not comfortable in crowds or around lots of people, regardless of gender, and usually don’t care much for drinking or smoking. They prefer a quiet, one-on-one setting.
At a cabaret club, they enjoy getting lively in large groups or with several people, are energetic and comfortable being around others, and may enjoy drinking and smoking. They can also raise their voices and keep the atmosphere fun.
For both men and women, the preferences are completely different, so rather than choosing one over the other, it’s easier to choose based on whether it suits you.
If you don’t like one of them, just don’t do it.
> Kazu,
So a dating club isn’t the same as a sugar-dating club?
Or were you referring to an adult-entertainment dating club...?
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