I’d like to ask those of you who see multiple people and have adult relationships: as a matter of etiquette regarding STIs, is there anything you do for your partners? I’d appreciate hearing about it.
I usually see one person for a long time and don’t have many partners.
Some of my relationships aren’t intimate every time, but for both our sakes, we get tested once a month.
I’d like to do anything else that others are doing for their partners, so I wanted to ask.
If you have time, I’d be happy to hear your thoughts. Thank you.
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Basically, Kazu’s approach is the standard. Since I keep the fact that I’m seeing multiple people under wraps, things might get a little complicated.
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There are always around three women who have unprotected sex with me because that’s what my regulars want—not because it’s my preference—so I’ve pretty much resigned myself to it...
Whenever one leaves, a new woman who wants that arrangement comes along, so I always have three in rotation. m(｡>__<｡)m
I’ve actually nearly caught an STI five times, but tested negative every time. I’ve also had COVID twice, but didn’t even develop a fever, so maybe I’m relatively healthy.
By the way, I had STI tests four times last month. Normally, I get tested twice a month.
I used to lie and say, “I’m not seeing anyone else,” pretending each relationship was exclusive. But since the beginning of this year, I’ve been upfront on the first date that I’m a womanizer, and I only see women who are okay with that.
Though I’ve never been turned down. I’m an ugly old man, but my allowance is ridiculously high.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), “a higher allowance is justice,” and kindness equals a higher allowance, right?
I also tell lounge hostesses I date outside of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) from the start that I’m a womanizer. They say they’re okay with it, so I continue seeing them.
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Of course, we both get tested.
To manage the risks, we also disclose the details of our other relationships. If someone hides the fact that they’re seeing other partners, it becomes difficult to bring it up if, by any chance, they contract something.
Even if a problem is found, I see it as something we’re both responsible for, so I ask them to let me know, assuring them that I won’t blame them.
That’s what we do.
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