Maezawa here.
> The female interviewer repeatedly asked me,
> “Are you okay with older men?”
> I answered, “Yes, I am,”
> but I was rejected.
Normally, they wouldn’t ask that question repeatedly, so I feel this may be the key point.
If they kept asking, perhaps your answers made it sound as though older men might actually be difficult for you, or you seemed to be answering casually and came across as untruthful. In other words, they may have had some doubts and asked again to clarify.
That said, whether you’re okay with older men isn’t all that important. What matters more is whether you’re comfortable seeing a man after having a meal together.
If you’re actually only comfortable with dinner and nothing beyond that, but answer that you’re fine with dating afterward, it can come across as a relationship-type scam.
That may be why they kept asking.
These days, agencies place more emphasis on respecting the woman’s wishes, so they may not go into too much detail. For example, with Relationship Type C, there is a 50% chance that she’ll be open to an adult relationship after dinner.
Occasionally, however, there are women who say, “It’s 50% with each man I go on a date with, right?”
To me, that sounds more like Relationship Type A in practice. It gives the impression that they mean, “Since it’s 50% for each man, it can still be dinner only with everyone, right?”
Universe doesn’t force anyone to do anything, so there’s nothing wrong with saying it’s 50% with each man. You can register even if you only want dinner dates. There are a small number of men who prefer women like that.
However, in such cases, we classify them as Relationship Type A. It may sound strict, but based on that kind of exchange, I feel there’s almost no chance of progressing beyond dinner.
Looking back at all the men she dated, “If she went on four dates, she would ultimately have an adult relationship with two of them” is what 50% means. Only women who genuinely feel that way qualify as Relationship Type C.
So, if you’re prepared to the extent that after going on two dates, you could have an adult relationship with one of those men, then you should choose Relationship Type C.
If not, choosing Relationship Type B or A would likely have allowed you to register as someone who seemed more sincere.
Incidentally, here are some recent reasons women were rejected at interviews:
- One previous partner, and only willing to date men the same age or younger → It strongly suggested a relationship-type scam.
- Only available for weekday daytime dates because of lessons → She didn’t seem motivated.
- It simply gave off a strong sense that trouble would follow.
If any of this sounds familiar, I hope it helps you understand what the staff are looking at.
Of course, I don’t think having only one previous partner automatically makes someone seem deceptive. Some women who were virgins have registered, and if the men are able to accommodate their wishes, things can still progress to an adult relationship.
However, relationship-type scams are a common source of complaints from men, so the staff have understandably become more cautious about them.
