I’m going to have an adult relationship (intimate) with a man I’ve met several times when I see him next week.
He’s well-groomed, very smooth in the way he asks, and even though I know what he’s expecting, I don’t feel uncomfortable at all.
Maybe I feel that way because I’m completely inexperienced with men and still very naive, but I’m worried because I have absolutely no experience with adult relationships (intimate). I’m a virgin.
I’ve never masturbated either—once, I touched myself out of curiosity, thought, “Oh, that’s not it,” and never did it again.
He also knows that I’m a virgin. But I often hear people say that virgins are a hassle, even taking that into account, so I’m anxious.
What do you all think about virgins when it comes to having an adult relationship (intimate)?
Should I do some research and practice beforehand to prepare myself (?)?
And if there’s anything I absolutely shouldn’t do, please let me know.
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I’ve started to wonder whether some of these questions are even genuine, but assuming this is a real question:
First, any man who thinks virgins are too much trouble probably won’t invite you out once he finds out you’re a virgin.
So if he already knew and still made plans with you, you have nothing to worry about.
That said, there’s a good chance this may also be your partner’s first time with a virgin. If so, I imagine it could be quite painful.
Also, there’s nothing in particular you absolutely shouldn’t do, but when you take a shower, it’s usually best not to wash your hair. Some women may assume that, just like at home, they’re supposed to wash their hair too the first time—or perhaps a bad friend told them that nonsense. Just thought I’d mention it.
Of course, you can wash it if you want, but drying it afterward might be a hassle…
Also, opinions tend to be divided here whenever the topic of virginity comes up, so even after writing all this, I still can’t completely shake the suspicion that this question was deliberately designed to stir up that debate.
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If your partner knows you’re a virgin, I don’t think you need to prepare anything—just act naturally shy.
Also, make sure to wash your intimate area thoroughly. Before taking a bath today, give it a quick touch and smell—if you feel like you’re about to pass out, it probably isn’t clean enough.
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You may be fine if he’s kind and has common sense, but don’t let yourself be fooled by phrases like, “Everyone does it this way” or “This is what’s normal.”
I don’t know whether things will go as far as penetration the first time, but even if he says, “It’s fine because I’ll pull out,” make sure he puts on a condom before there’s any penetration, even briefly.
Also, be clear and say no when you don’t want to do something.
That’s all.
Marika
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If your partner already knows, I don’t think there’s anything in particular you need to do.
> Also, if there’s anything I absolutely shouldn’t do, I’d appreciate your advice.
It might be best not to come on too strong right from the start. Take things at a pace that feels right, paying attention to how your body responds.
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