Tips Apr 26, 2022 13:22

Does a sarcastic older man who says things like, “You can only make money this way (through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)) while you’re young,” mean that when he was around my age (20), he had no money, no ability to earn, and wasn’t popular either?

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It’s only natural that youth and beauty can be assets for making money.
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だて◎ゆめ
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That’s what I meant, haha. Though these days, I’m a former handsome old guy, haha. > It’s only natural that youth and beauty can be weapons for making money. Rather than saying it’s “only natural,” I think it would be more accurate to say they provide an opportunity—not just in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but in general.
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カズ
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I feel like it’s been a while since I’ve seen this kind of act. I don’t know what he was like when he was around twenty. All we can really infer from that comment is that he seems to have viewed you as someone with no apparent purpose other than servicing him orally.
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Your question is rather difficult to understand. Regarding the statement, “You can only make money from something like this (papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)) while you’re young,” you yourself describe it as simply stating the obvious: “It’s only natural that youth and beauty can be used as assets to make money.” However, I don’t see how that connects to your assumption that a man who says something obvious “didn’t have any money, had no ability to earn, and wasn’t popular at around my age (20).” Where is the evidence that someone who states the obvious had no money or wasn’t popular when he was young? Unless you explain that part as well, it just ends up sounding like, “I’ve never heard anything like that.” Although you wrote, “Is that the case?”, it doesn’t really feel like a question. Unfortunately, it comes across more as though you’re simply presenting your own opinion.
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He sounds like a pretty disrespectful papa. He probably doesn’t think much—or maybe he’s never really seen women as people with minds and their own will. People like that view women in purely animalistic terms, as either sexually desirable or not. You don’t need to engage with him.
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Try rewriting your question one more time.
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I’m not really sure what you’re trying to say, but if youth and beauty are what make money, then aren’t the papas who say you won’t be able to earn as much once you’re no longer young actually right? Do you mean, “That’s obvious, so don’t bother saying it, idiot”? There are also ways to phrase things that make even men like that take an even greater liking to you, but I guess that wasn’t what you were asking about. Marika
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