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Apr 23, 2022 11:38
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For the time being, I don’t plan to make any new offers, but I’d like to choose a few women from the nine I can continue seeing and meet them through monthly arrangements. I’d appreciate any advice on how to choose them. Given my time and finances, I think five would be the absolute limit. Thank you.
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👨 Male
Universe member
> Would you say this is a good track record overall?
I’m also in my 60s, and I think that’s quite impressive for someone our age.
In my case, I started out having offers rejected, being told all sorts of outrageous things, and even being suspected of scamming people about my relationship type. After going through all those trials before finally starting the arrangement I’m in now, I can only say I’m envious.
As for how to choose your partners, if I were in your position, I’d start a monthly arrangement with all of them.
It would be a great opportunity to hone your skills as a man and see how far—and for how long—you can maintain each relationship.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
To be blunt, an adult relationship is merely the entry point to an arrangement.
The fact that you refer to it as a “track record” makes me think you’re satisfied simply because you managed to do it once.
Still, since the allowances are fairly substantial, I’m sure there are women who put up with the arrangement for the money.
Also, I’ve never thought in terms of choosing from among these women.
Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable, as though you’re trying to beat women down with bundles of cash…?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
What kind of relationship style do you ideally want?
Do you want to continue as you are and maintain multiple relationships with four or five people?
Or do you want to develop a special relationship with someone in particular?
If it’s the former, things will naturally continue this way and you’ll likely end up maintaining those relationships.
If it’s the latter, out of ten people, you’ll probably have only one or two true favorites. Narrowing things down would let you see them more often and deepen the relationship into something important for both of you.
After all, the allowance is part of the arrangement, so being able to meet whenever the woman wants to—and wanting to meet her whenever she does—probably plays a major role in building a mutual relationship. I hope you can build a relationship with someone you want to treat that way, and who wants to be treated that way.
As for the allowance, I think it’s more than sufficient.
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Other
It sounds like you’ve been fortunate enough to meet some good people.
Even if you don’t narrow things down yourself, the number of people you see will gradually decrease, so I think it’s fine to continue seeing them as you are.
Just keep in mind that they probably won’t all stay with you indefinitely.
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Other
If you’re in your 60s and getting that kind of response, I’d say it’s because you’re considerate, well-groomed, and offer a good allowance.
All nine of them probably won’t like you equally or want to see you again with the same frequency—people have different preferences, after all—so I think the number will naturally taper off.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you keep meeting them, I think things will naturally narrow down. If there are still women you haven’t slept with, though, it may be a little early to decide.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If you made offers to 10 women and things went well with 9 of them, you seem to be someone who’s good at getting along with women.
As for your future arrangements, rather than forcing yourself to narrow things down, I think that as you continue seeing them, you’ll gradually figure out which women you genuinely want to see more and which relationships feel more ordinary.
If you keep meeting the people you actually want to see, your priorities will naturally become clearer.
It may be difficult at first, but before long, you’ll naturally know who you especially want to see.
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Other
This is just my personal impression, but I’d say you’re doing better than most overall. The allowance is certainly an important factor, so I think that’s working in your favor as well.
Also, if you’re going from nine people down to five, some may naturally drop out without you having to choose, while others may simply be difficult to schedule with. Why not continue as you are for another two or three months?
In my case, the girls I end up choosing—or rather, the ones I continue seeing long-term—are those who treat me well and make me want to reciprocate properly, such as by increasing their allowance.
Although maybe I’m just being trained by them, haha.