[How to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) without my boyfriend finding out] How do you save your papas’ names on LINE, and what do you write in your planner?
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I’d really appreciate everyone’s advice!
I have a boyfriend, but I also have a main papa (a male supporter who thinks of himself as my boyfriend). I also see two other men once or twice a month.
My boyfriend looks over when I’m using my phone (not because he suspects anything), so having men’s names showing up on LINE would be a problem.
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It’s annoying when they snoop through your LINE… For starters, you should always hide your papas, and maybe use a name that sounds work-related.
I’ve changed the name of my most generous (well-paying) papa, and he knows I’ve saved him under that name. He calls me often, so I told him, “I was getting suspicious looks from my parents because I was always on the phone with you when I was with them, so I told them you’re someone I know through work.”
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With the girl I’m seeing, the basic rule was that she wouldn’t let her boyfriend see anything. However, she did show me that she’d changed the display names of her papas, including mine.
She also asked me to change my profile picture to something more gender-neutral, so I did.
It’s tricky, though, because if I change it to something too weird, I’ll look suspicious too.
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A few ideas come to mind:
Since you can freely change the displayed name on LINE, you could change it to something that sounds feminine, just to be safe.
Keep your papa (a male supporter) hidden from your friends list normally, and only check and reply to messages when you need to discuss practical details, like date plans.
You could also use a scheduling app that can be locked with a password.
Those are the options that come to mind.
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That’s not good.
If I were the papa, I wouldn’t mind, but if she has a boyfriend, I’d really want her to quit papa-katsu. I feel so sorry for the boyfriend.
If she has that many supporters, they probably know, too—they’re just choosing not to say anything.
Given his age and lack of experience, her boyfriend might not realize it if she hasn’t changed much since they first met.
I hope you can graduate from papa-katsu soon.
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