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Mar 22, 2022 22:54
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I was prepared for it, so after having tea and chatting briefly, we went straight to a hotel.
He said, “It’s cold, so let’s take a bath together.” Even though only two hours had passed since we first met, we got into the tub together and got physically intimate. Then he said he’d wash me, and carefully washed and rinsed my hair, body, and back with soap, then applied conditioner and treatment before drying my hair for me. Somewhere along the way, I started remembering my childhood and burst into tears.
I kept crying throughout the adult relationship (intimate) too, but it felt incredibly good, and I became very sensitive down there, trembling and shuddering several times.
Am I a person to avoid? It hurts to think that he might not want to see me again.
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
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I might end up getting attached, honestly.
I tend to see women as adorable, so if she cried in a way that tugged at my heartstrings, I’d probably find it endearing.
Being comfortable enough to touch someone’s hair is a big deal. I’d say you two must have really good chemistry.
I think you’d be fine sending a LINE message like:
“Sorry for crying yesterday. It’s been a really long time since someone treated me with such kindness, and I got emotional. We’ve only just met, but you were so gentlemanly and made me feel at ease. If you’re okay with me, I’d love to see you again.”
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I don’t think many men would consider you a person to avoid if you respond really strongly.
As for you breaking down in tears, if he starts thinking he did something wrong, the relationship might not last.
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What does it mean when someone washes your hair while you’re taking a bath together at a hotel? I don’t think that’s normal, but apparently it struck a chord with you, so I’m glad. Your partner probably enjoyed it too. Best wishes.
That said, I think shampoo would be better than soap for washing your hair.
Taro
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Sometimes a letter date can lead to a remote interview, too, I see.
I wouldn’t necessarily consider her a person to avoid, but a woman who’s crying makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong. In that situation, I wouldn’t feel inclined to be intimate with her.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I think this should be fine.
As for the man, does he have any complaints?
If you feel that everything is fine overall, I’d say there’s an 80% chance it will continue.
If you want to keep seeing him, you should invite him yourself if you haven’t heard from him by tomorrow.