About men’s sex drive.

How old do you think men can—or want to—have sex until? Of course, I know it depends on the individual. One of the men I’m seeing is a 73-year-old grandfather. He’s perfectly enjoyable to talk and have meals with, but when I see his wrinkled skin and sagging flesh during sex, I feel turned off by myself for being with someone that old. He tries so hard that he even takes medication, so I get nervous imagining him dying on top of me. Also: ・Squeezes my breasts painfully hard (ouch) ・The angle of his fingers is weird (it feels like I’m going to end up with another opening) ・Leans his entire body weight on me (way too heavy) ・Can’t get it in properly, etc. There are just too many things to avoid when it comes to sex. I genuinely respect his wife. I know I’ve done nothing but complain, but he has some cute sides too! I wash his hair and body for him every time we take a bath. It’s basically caregiving now! Lately, I’ve been vaguely wondering how much longer I’ll be able to do this sort of thing with this old man.