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Feb 26, 2022 13:30
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The pill may prevent pregnancy by 99%, but it doesn’t protect against STIs, so I always make sure to use condoms.
But every now and then, there are papas who say things like, “I’ll pull out” or “I’ll give you the morning-after pill, so let me do it without a condom.”
Why do men tend to think of going without a condom primarily as a pregnancy risk?
To me, going without a condom means the biggest risk is STIs.
Is it common for women doing papa-katsu not to take the pill?
I’m a student and absolutely don’t want to get pregnant. I haven’t even entered society yet, and it would ruin my life. When I see young people getting married because of an unplanned pregnancy or becoming single mothers, I can’t help thinking it’s incredibly foolish.
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For a while, I drank because of a certain papa, but I don’t anymore.
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The rate of pill use is pretty high—about 80% among the women I’m seeing.
That said, I get the impression that many of them take it to manage menstrual issues rather than for contraception.
Pulling out isn’t contraception, and I imagine emergency contraception can make some people feel really sick.
I don’t think every man sees “going bare” as meaning “a risk of pregnancy.” Men who ask to have unprotected sex are already ignoring the risk of STIs, so I think pregnancy is the only risk they still have in mind.