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Feb 25, 2022 19:58
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I’ve been seeing a girl for quite a while, in a sort of “weekend marriage” kind of arrangement. I’ve taught her golf and played rounds with her, and we recently went out for monjayaki. I actually had never eaten monjayaki before (I’m not really into flour-based foods), but when I told her that, she insisted that I try it. It was pretty tasty, though. (笑)
Last week, she messaged me saying a friend had invited her out for a meal on the 25th and asked if it was okay for her to go, so I replied, “Sure.” We’ve also had to reschedule a few times because of work.
I don’t mean anything by it. I definitely feel that she’s comfortable seeing me and trusts me.
Still, I’d like to make her a little jealous, so I thought I’d ask for some ideas.
What kind of harmless prank could I pull that would make her say, “Huh?!”?
P.S. Mac, I’m not very confident myself, so please keep the suggestions non-extreme.
I’ve thought of buying as many roses as her age, though.
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It sounds fun, but also a little cringe. I think the women involved are pretty impressive.
If you get too carried away, I have a feeling she may reach her limit and suddenly end things with you.
You should calmly observe her and consider whether she’s putting up with anything, or whether you’re casually doing things she dislikes. Then take a hard look at your own words and actions.
Or perhaps you should hold on to her with an even more generous allowance than before?
To begin with, does she even have feelings of jealousy? It might be best to observe her more carefully from there...
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How many years apart are you and the woman in question?
If you want to make her jealous, why would you give her a bouquet of roses? I remember someone saying on the Q&A site that they wouldn’t be happy to receive flowers. This isn’t the Taisho era… I think she’d be happier if you gave her an allowance.
Also, if you’re in your seventies, couldn’t you use a few more kanji and make your post easier to read?
If you want to make her jealous and play a little prank, how about giving her a subtle glimpse of another woman’s presence?