I’m a black-tier female member in a regional area.
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It’s been 10 days since I registered, and I’ve received around 12 offers, which I’m thrilled about. However, I’m currently trying to coordinate a date with a male member I’m especially interested in meeting, so I haven’t been able to arrange letter dates with the other male members.
If I can’t meet on the dates they’ve suggested despite receiving their offers, will those offers be canceled?
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Letter Date is LINE, right?
It should be available 24/7.
Also, how do you know your own class after only 10 days of joining?
Do you perhaps think you’re in the Black class just because you’ve received a lot of offers?
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What’s the point of doing a letter date, then?
The advantage is that you can coordinate schedules directly, right?
If the suggested date doesn’t work for you, I think you should simply propose another date yourself.
If all 12 offers came from blacklisted members, I’d suspect she’s pretty close to being a blacklisted woman herself.
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If there’s a man you’re still coordinating dates with and you’d like to prioritize him, I think it’s best to simply explain that.
Something like:
“I’d like to finalize my schedule around this man’s availability. Would that be okay?”
That might be a good way to ask.
In general, if a woman has a hard time matching schedules, there’s a higher chance that the man will cancel partway through.
However, if the staff know the reason and understand that it’s unavoidable, they may be able to follow up with the man on your behalf.
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I’ve been deep-learning data on allowances and the number of offers, so “12 offers in 10 days at a regional blacklisted club” feels completely off to me—but let’s set that aside for now.
It generally leaves a good impression if you send a message through the club to the male member who made you an offer. I can’t guarantee it, but there’s a good chance you’ll be able to meet him.
Something like:
“I’m having a hard time meeting on the dates you suggested because it’s the end of the fiscal year and I’ve been working overtime every day, including weekends. However, I’m available on March ○, March ⚫, or March △. I’d really love to meet, so I’d appreciate it if you could consider one of those dates. m(｡>__<｡)m”
As long as you send specific dates like that, you should be fine.
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Women who get offers from Black members must be Black themselves, right? No, sorry, I got that wrong lol.
I’ve never become a Black member. The bar is too high.
You can just ask them to change the date.
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Sometimes it gets canceled, and sometimes it doesn’t. If you really want to meet but can’t make it that day, replying through the staff might help reduce the chances of it being canceled.
Adding this after reading Mac’s answer: Come to think of it, it would be strange for a woman who just joined to know her own class. I wonder if she was told by the person who referred her to Frein or by an affiliate marketer.
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