It may be true that there aren’t many women I’ve met four or more times.
How is it for everyone else?
I checked just now, and it was 5 out of 39 for me—just under 13%.
(By the way, two of those five ended after four meetings.)
Don’t you have to compromise somewhere if you want to take things further?
You can’t expect someone perfect to just come along without helping shape them to your liking—and if you’re constantly worrying about the other person’s feelings, it won’t be fun, will it?
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It’s true that I usually move on after two or three dates. I think there’s definitely a three-date threshold.
That said, there was also one woman I said goodbye to after four dates. The reason was that she wasn’t available when I invited her out, and in the meantime, I ended up becoming close with another woman I had approached.
For me, the first six months or so are basically a trial period.
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Right now, I’m finding that most arrangements don’t make it past the first meeting. Some people decide to move on, and others don’t.
Actually, there just aren’t many people I want to see again. And even when I do want a second meeting, I sometimes get turned down.
So lately, most of them end after one meeting.
I feel like this used to be a little more fun.
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Unless you’re exceptionally compatible, there’s definitely a barrier.
You seem to be the type who prefers shorter-term relationships.
Rather than depending on who the other person is, it may come down more to you—specifically, whether you can make them take a liking to you.
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