Handsome papas. I currently see two papas regularly, and they’re both quite handsome. Honestly, they look better than my boyfriend and are good at night, too. My father was also wealthy and handsome, but he only took my mother to family restaurants while apparently cheating on her with a beautiful mistress outside the home. It seems that handsome, wealthy men often choose an ordinary-looking, obedient type as their wife and a beautiful, high-maintenance type as their mistress, and it’s starting to make me feel like getting married normally is foolish.
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In addition to the two handsome papas mentioned above, I also have a papa who has been providing me with financial support for many years—he used to be my boss—and a boyfriend around my age. My long-term papa is pressuring me to marry him, and he says he doesn’t mind if I cheat. I’m starting to feel that marrying someone fatherly who conveniently provides me with money, while continuing to enjoy receiving money from handsome papas, would be more cost-effective than marrying my boyfriend around my age, who is also less attractive than the handsome papas. Is there something wrong with the way I’m thinking?
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You seem attractive, so if you’re young, why not start by looking for a boyfriend?
Someone who’s handsome (your type), good in bed, and likely to earn well in the future—you might be able to find someone like that.
And if you can’t, marrying your papa (a male supporter) could be an option too...
It would be a new kind of relationship, with both sides agreeing from the start: the husband does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and the wife does papa-katsu too.
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I don’t think your way of thinking is strange at all.
I think it’s best to marry someone you genuinely feel is right for you.
That decision should be based on the overall picture, and even when choosing someone around your own age, financial stability is usually one factor among many.
That’s probably why matchmaking services ask about things like income and occupation.
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If you can’t picture yourselves having and raising children and building a family together, I don’t really see the point in getting married.
If you’re in your mid-thirties or older and would like to get married, I think it might be worth giving marriage a try. During the trial period, make sure to use contraception, and only have children once you both feel ready.
Marika
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I understand what you mean.
I’ve seen several cases where attractive papas married the so-called “good girl” they’d been with since their school days, then continued collecting mistresses to their heart’s content even after getting married—a real living hell, you might say.
That said, I’m not sure calling the mistresses “arrogant” is quite right. In the world of handsome men, there are plenty of obedient women who will do whatever they say, so perhaps the women they deliberately pursue are the “unusual” types—women who are intriguing and fun to figure out. From the outside, I suppose they can come across as arrogant and tricky.
The mistresses themselves may also become more assertive over time, especially when they’re treated unfairly.
Sorry for going on at such length. As for your question, why not try marrying your former boss? If it doesn’t work out, you can always get divorced. I don’t know enough about him to say, but there are many things you won’t know until you try.
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