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Feb 17, 2022 22:20
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 40s, but I always discuss the terms of the arrangement.
You’ve simply been running into that type of man a lot. After all, men in their 40s make up the largest age group at these clubs…
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 40s, and I’m Fuu—I only make offers to C-type women.
If I like someone, I always discuss the terms when dessert is served. Otherwise, the offer fee and my time are wasted. I wonder what that papa is doing papa-katsu for.
Ah, but if there are several women in their 40s, maybe the papa is hesitating over whether to have an adult relationship or continue seeing you? Perhaps he thinks you’re too beautiful and out of his league, or that you seem strong-willed?
As for what to do, the only thing I can think of is asking a hesitant papa yourself, “So, what shall we do about the terms?”
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 30s, but whether the woman is close to my age, much younger, or older, I simply state the allowance amount when meeting someone through UniValue.
I don’t see any point in being shy about it.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think it depends more on the man’s personality than on his age.
If he still hasn’t brought up the terms by the end of the meal, you could ask, “What will the allowance be next time?”
If he looks puzzled, you can follow up with something like:
“Was it ¥10,000 again for the next dinner, like this time?”
(I’d be fine with ¥20,000 for dinner, though.)
That seems like a good way to steer the conversation.