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Feb 14, 2022 10:37
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Also, what did you think of the movie date?
I’ve never done it. I thought it would be bad for the woman because we wouldn’t be able to talk and she’d be tied up for a long time.
But there’s a movie I really want to see, and I’m wondering whether I should ask her.
We’ve met several times, and we’re also in an adult relationship (intimate).
I’d especially appreciate answers from women.
Sorry for asking something that sounds like a middle schooler’s question.
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If your dates currently last around 3–4 hours, I don’t think there’s any need to go see a movie.
But if your dates often last 5–6 hours or more, going to the movies could be a good option.
In that case, you’re probably already having conversations like, “Where do you want to go?” and “What do you want to do?”
> Have you ever gone to the movies through papa-katsu?
I go fairly often.
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To be more specific, I might get criticized, so I’ll just say that yes, there are.
I’ve gone to see a movie with one before.
As for my thoughts on movie dates: they’re pretty ordinary. You just watch a movie together, and it doesn’t have any particular effect.
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If you’re the one who wants to see a particular movie, then it seems like you should just go by yourself.
If the movie comes up during your date and she says she’s interested in seeing it too, then inviting her along would probably be the smoother approach.
That said, some kind women may go along with you even if they’re not really interested, so it’s important to read the situation carefully.
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I’ve been to the movies on a second date before.
It was a somewhat unconventional Japanese film. I ended up liking him a lot more afterward, but I’m sure some people would’ve thought, “What?” It can be a double-edged sword.
As for watching an ordinary movie with a papa (a male supporter) I don’t even like that much… I’m not sure how I feel about it.
If you’re already close and the idea of going to a movie comes up naturally during the conversation, or if you both genuinely enjoy movies and hit it off over that, then I think it’s fine.
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I highly recommend *Drive My Car*. It’s very sensual. Once you finish watching it, you’ll want to head straight there. Oh—though that’s only in Joe’s case.
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I’ve gone because a woman invited me.
If it’s a movie I want to see, I’d probably go alone since I prefer the ease of going by myself.