Tips Feb 11, 2022 08:02

Having tea or dinner with a woman about 20 years younger—people might stare, so a private room would be better, right…

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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you’re unsure, I think a private room would be better.
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Unless it’s a family restaurant packed with families, I think a regular table at any hotel should be fine. Maybe you’re worried about being seen or recognized? There could be various reasons, but generally, a regular table is perfectly okay. There are other things worth being more considerate about, too…
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I understand how you feel, but I don’t date someone who’s that worried about being seen. It just wouldn’t be fun in the end. A 20-year-old with no experience worrying about someone recognizing her, saying she doesn’t want anyone to see her with me—I don’t want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) that badly either. The only person I’m currently seeing is a sexy actress, and even with her, if she said we could only go to private rooms because she was worried about being seen, I probably wouldn’t be dating her. Neither of us cares at all about being seen; we choose restaurants based on how good the food is and eat at counters and such. People around us see us all the time. If one of her fans came up to us, I’d just pretend to be an important person from her agency: “I’m ○○ from ○○ Co., Ltd. Thank you for always supporting ○○.” I think there are plenty of ways to cover things up, especially if you’re a cute woman. So “I don’t like being seen in public” isn’t an excuse as far as I’m concerned(笑)
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t really think that’s necessarily the case. For the first meeting, I choose a private room because we need to discuss the terms of the arrangement, but from the second meeting onward, I’m not particularly set on having a private room.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s generally a private room. We meet and part ways at the location. Unless the woman wants to walk together, we keep our distance when going from the private room to the hotel. If it’s a bit far, we take separate taxis.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I see. So, what’s your question?
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