If you go to a movie, amusement park, or for a drive without an adult relationship (intimate), what kind of allowance do you usually receive? Since it takes longer than a meal, is it something like the equivalent of two meals?
Likewise, if the outing is followed by an adult relationship (intimate), how much extra allowance do you add compared with just an adult relationship (intimate)?
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Until now, the only papas I’ve had who took me on dates to places like amusement parks without an adult relationship were monthly-arrangement papas, so I’ve never experienced a pay-per-meeting arrangement. Sorry. But after reading everyone’s answers, I imagine it would probably be about the same as dinner only (no intimacy), or perhaps ¥10,000–¥20,000 more at most.
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I think it depends on who proposed the date.
If the man proposed it, I think the allowance should be the same as for an adult relationship (intimate). Trying to save money over something like that will only make him look cheap.
You should approach it with the attitude of, “I am Heihachi Edajima, headmaster of Otokojuku!”
If the woman proposed the date, I think you should ask in advance whether it would be okay for the allowance to be lower than for an adult relationship (intimate).
I suppose it’s understandable if there’s a slightly feminine feeling of, “I actually wanted an adult relationship (intimate), though.”
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I would never go on that kind of date with someone who makes me worry about things like the allowance amount. I don’t see what’s enjoyable about it.
Having to be considerate of them, only to give them a slightly higher allowance—is that really fun?
The same goes for going to the movies. What’s enjoyable about going with someone who makes you worry about the allowance?
I’d have far more fun watching a Disney princess movie with my daughter.
It’s only enjoyable when I’m comfortable with the other person and they don’t feel the need to be considerate of me either. Otherwise, it’s exhausting.
A date where both sides are basically entertaining each other is hell.
In the end, when you’re close with someone, you can give them an allowance without having to agonize over it at all.
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Even if we only have a brief adult relationship, I give the agreed allowance for an adult relationship.
If I’m no longer in the mood and we don’t do it, I still give the allowance as usual.
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There have been some ups and downs, but I haven’t changed the allowance depending on whether sex is involved. For Joe, that’s the arrangement that keeps things working smoothly.
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My standard is 1 when there’s no adult relationship.
If she doesn’t want to spend time together because that feels too low, then I simply don’t go on non-intimate dates with her.
That said, the other day, I was about to go on a date with a woman I’d been seeing for quite a while when she unexpectedly got her period.
Since we’d known each other for a decent length of time and I figured she was counting on the allowance, I gave her 2.
Also, when I have an adult relationship after dinner, I pay 5 on a pay-per-meeting basis, so I’d probably keep it at 5 even if we started with a movie instead.
You should set your own rules without worrying about what other people do. I’ve decided that if a woman isn’t happy with my terms, I simply won’t continue seeing her.
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Adult relationship (intimate)
A day trip without intimacy
An overnight trip without intimacy
I charge the same amount for all three. That said, I only do overnight trips in exceptional circumstances.
If the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) is 10, then both the day trip and the overnight trip without intimacy are also 10.
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