I’m 36 and a Type B. I was too cautious—or pushed too hard—and failed to turn a valuable offer I received in my first month into an ongoing arrangement. I’ve now been seeing one person once a month for six months. I’ve only just started to understand how things work, but I’m not getting any offers. (I regret that it took me so long to learn.)
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I enjoy going on dates and having adult relationships with men who are considerably older than me. However, I don’t have a particularly sexy look, so I sometimes wonder whether I got offers because I was a Type B.
Given my age, would it be better to clearly mention in my profile that I’m looking for—or want to enjoy—adult relationships? I’m also wondering whether I should switch to Type C. I’d appreciate any advice.
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I’m in my late 40s, but even after a year, I still get a few offers a month.
Sure, if I were in my 20s, I’d probably get an offer once a week—but would it be okay for me to choose Type C? Some people seem to assume that Type C means you’re definitely okay with an adult relationship (intimate).
You can still turn someone down even if you choose Type C, but it leaves a bad taste when they lash out, and your rating may go down too… Ultimately, it depends on how you feel.
☆ Mac, the way you write your profile is wonderful—like an erotic novel. I should follow your example ♡
Since you’ve kindly been given this advice, why not just rewrite your profile accordingly?
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Hmm, I wonder if the staff didn’t explain things properly... >＜
You’ll get the most offers during your first month, and they’ll gradually decrease after that.
So I always thought you were supposed to treat every offer as valuable, but maybe that was just me.
As for the relationship type, I’d recommend choosing the one that matches what you really want. However, if you’re over 30 and select Relationship Type B, I feel like many men will think, “Huh?”
That’s why, especially if you choose Type B, I think it’s a good idea to explain various things in your comments.
I chose B because I’m not good at turning people down and was worried about what I’d do if we weren’t compatible, but emotionally, I may be closer to C.
You could write something like:
“I’m not looking for a relationship that’s just H. I’d like to get to know each other as people and find someone who also enjoys spending time together in ways other than meals and H.”
I think explaining why you chose that type will work in your favor.
If you choose C, you’ll get more pushy, proactive men. But if you feel that you can handle that, and that you’re able to say no when something makes you uncomfortable, choosing C may temporarily increase the number of offers you receive.
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At your age, you probably aren’t receiving an abundance of offers.
Since it’s been six months, why not start by getting new photos taken?
You can always change your type from B to C afterward.
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I’d find it a little off-putting to see that in the comments, so I think it would be better to just change your dating type.
If you want to make your preferences known, the club will probably contact you after you change your dating type. When they do, you could explain your thoughts to the staff. It gives a different impression when you write it yourself versus having an impartial staff member write it for you.
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The first three days, three weeks, and three months are crucial.
It’s a shame, because the men who take an immediate liking to you are also more likely to treat you favorably.
Once six months have passed… there’s no getting that opportunity back.
You may want to look for another club or somewhere else to meet people.
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