How often do you usually stay in touch with your papa?
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I’ve been seeing this papa (a male supporter) for about a year now, meeting once a month on a pay-per-meeting basis with an allowance of 80,000 yen. The last time we contacted each other was January 30.
Usually, I either bring up a topic or respond when he messages me.
Should I send him something soon?
Also, are there people who exchange lovey-dovey messages with their papa every day?
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I think it depends on the person, but if your papa (male supporter) doesn’t mind, why not try sending a “good morning” and “good night” message every day?
I fall for people easily, so I send a greeting LINE message every day. I mean, I want to hear his voice.
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I only meet my papa once a month, and we basically use LINE just to arrange our meetings.
That said, if he’s giving you an allowance of 80,000 yen each time—even though you only meet monthly—that’s above average. So I think it’s best to reply at the pace he prefers.
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I may be a little unusual, but I stay in touch every day. Sometimes he messages first, and sometimes I do, and I generally try to reply right away.
That said, this is probably a rare case. Some arrangements continue without that level of communication, while some papas (male supporters) prefer you to contact them only when you want to meet. It really depends on the person.
If you’d like to see him, I think it’s better to be proactive and reach out.
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Someone I’ve known for eight years, but only see once every six months: 10 back-and-forth messages a day.
Someone I’ve been seeing for three years: we meet twice a week, but only message the day before we meet.
Someone I’ve been seeing for two years: we meet three times a month and have casual conversations about once every three days.
Seeing someone just once a month isn’t enough to grow close. Either increase the casual conversation because you want to get closer, or keep things going sporadically over the long term.
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We’re not lovey-dovey, but some women message me on LINE every day. Others message me when they have something to talk about—about once a week or every other week.
I think it depends on the person.
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