Do the people answering really have zero complaints on their record?
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Even those who’ve been doing this for years—do they really have zero complaints, even minor ones?
When I read some of the answers, I often think things like, “This guy probably isn’t that wealthy and is dating on a limited budget,” or “The girl is stressed out but putting up with it because she has no other offers,” or “He’s buying a late青春 with money and getting carried away,” and I find myself half-wondering, “Has this person really never had a complaint filed against him?!” lol
Complaints filed after becoming an answerer don’t particularly affect your ability to answer, right?
I’ve received offers from around 40 people in the six months since joining, and I’ve filed complaints about roughly 35 of them (lol).
As for the remaining five men I didn’t complain about, it was more that there were things that bothered me, but I eventually thought, “This is too much hassle; whatever.” It’s not like those experiences were completely stress-free.
I understand that, since I’m the one receiving money, my job is to provide the man with an enjoyable time, so I suppose that’s just how it is. Still, someday I’d love to receive an offer from a man who gives me absolutely no reason to file a complaint.
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Both the person receiving money and the person paying for companionship are being very considerate, since this is a relationship involving money.
Complaints are actually quite rare.
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Besides, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is supposed to be nothing like working in the sex or hostess industry. It’s meant to be a lucky, stress-free arrangement where you can have fun, feel energized, and receive an allowance—not a job.
You’re treating papa-katsu like work, and it’s weighing you down.
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I haven’t heard of any complaints being filed, but if you’re asking whether there might have been complaints about minor issues too, I simply may not have heard about them.
Isn’t there a possibility that someone like you could be viewed by the club as a complainer and someone to watch out for?
I think it would have more impact if you carefully chose only the things you absolutely couldn’t tolerate and reported those. Then, if you have a good reputation, people might trust you enough to think, “If they’re saying it, it must be true.”
This is just my speculation, but isn’t that how people tend to think?
Marika
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
The questioner is in her mid-thirties, married, and has children. (Borrowing that line from Mac-san.)
I’ve answered questions here in this papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) anonymous Q&A box several times, and I’ve received complaints from female members.
Once, because the details of the complaint didn’t match my understanding of what had happened, I told the club, “Please confirm the facts with the woman who filed the complaint.”
I was later told that she had withdrawn from the club at the same time she complained about me, so they couldn’t contact her. I was also told that even if they could reach her, it was extremely unlikely she would respond about something that could put her at a disadvantage.
Regardless of whether it’s a complaint, I think it’s best to say whatever you want to say.
But please base it on the facts and be concise and clear. It must be difficult for the club to verify everything, too.
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There may be a few, since there are complainers like the person asking the question.
Some people—both men and women—seem to prioritize getting angry about everything.
This is just my guess, but when a complaint is made, I imagine it often comes from both sides.
The club will make the decision. Even if they occasionally receive a complaint, if they get a lot of positive feedback, they’ll probably conclude that it was simply a case of the two people not being a good match.
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