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Feb 1, 2022 16:40
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If someone says that to me, I can’t help thinking, “Of course I didn’t come.”
At least be aware of the cause.
If they’re concerned and aware of it, I wish they’d make an effort to improve.
My partner just clenches his teeth and moans every time, so nothing changes.
If you want this kind of relationship—or want to keep it going—then regardless of technique, isn’t making at least a genuine effort to stay hard something a man needs to do?
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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It depends on you.
If it feels like too much trouble, just end things.
But he’ll probably have trouble getting it up with other women too, so if you can get him hard and satisfy him, there may be benefits, like a better allowance or a continued arrangement.
You could just pretend to finish. You always pretend to climax, right?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
In that case, you should take the initiative and help get him “down there” in shape.
Apparently, *Japanese Erotic Oddities* (published by Minmei Shobo) has all sorts of techniques for getting anyone aroused.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You have to tell him exactly what to do and how to do it yourself.
Buy some medication from Osaka-do and make him take it.
If he’s a limp-dick who won’t listen, maybe just stop caring and do whatever. For now, vent here.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
He’s seeing you because he’s satisfied with things as they are.
Whether he can get or stay hard may not even matter to him.
He asks whether you came because he feels insecure about his technique.
I hope you can look at him with a little understanding.
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Other
If he’s not good at caressing or cunnilingus, try telling him, “Do it more like this,” and teach him.
You could also use a toy and show him, saying, “Like this, okay? ♡” He might get excited and hard.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I am Edajima Fuhachi, headmaster of Univajuku!
*This is the kind of joke that falls completely flat when you’re all brawn and no brains...
Since my dick is made of Magnum steel, I get such an obvious tent going that you can tell even through my pants before I step into the shower, and the girls always laugh at me...
It’s honestly so embarrassing how much of a tent I get when I’m coming out of the shower, too—no matter whether I wrap myself in a towel or put on a bathrobe, it still stands out...
I wonder if they sell any pills that’ll make me go soft...
#I can play the human percussion instrument (bang bang), but I’m less than half the size of Sh⚫toru-san.
Update:
LOL, published by Minmei Shobo.
茉莉花
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Is he finishing? Even though he stays soft…
In that case, I’d probably say something like, “I can never finish either, but I’m fully satisfied and it still feels good. If it goes on too long, it starts to hurt, so this is just right for me.” That way, it may be best to make sure he doesn’t try every trick in the book.
If he can’t finish either and it just keeps dragging on, I really wish he’d take something for it.
—Marika
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You can’t get it up through sheer effort lol. You need medication.