I have a question about a monthly arrangement.
There’s someone I’ve been seeing about three to five times a month for the past few months. I’m wondering whether it’s time to switch to a monthly arrangement or whether we should continue as we are… I’m having trouble deciding.
If any of you have had successful or unsuccessful experiences with monthly arrangements, I’d really appreciate hearing about them for reference. That’s why I’m asking.
Thank you in advance.
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I’ve only had two monthly arrangements in the past: one for 150,000 yen a month with unlimited meetings, and another for 50,000 yen a month where the other person decided how often we met.
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It kind of sounds like a parking lot…
With a monthly parking arrangement, it’s cheaper if you leave your car there every day. But if you’re not using it daily, it ends up costing more, right?
If it’s only occasional, wouldn’t pay-per-meeting make more sense?
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I think it’s safest to keep things pay-per-meeting as they are.
If either of you starts feeling like they’re getting the short end of the stick—or getting more than their fair share—it could lead to resentment.
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Unless the woman herself asks for a monthly arrangement, a man usually suggests it because he wants exclusivity. So unless you specifically want that, I think you’re better off sticking with pay-per-meeting as before.
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I’ve never had a monthly arrangement, but if I were to do one, I’d want the woman to suggest it.
If there were a woman who felt, “The amount I’m receiving now is enough; I’d just like to see you more often,” then a monthly arrangement might work. But that hasn’t happened so far, so I stick with pay-per-meeting.
Though, come to think of it, I generally see women once a month, so anyone I’ve decided to meet every month is practically in a monthly arrangement anyway, haha.
My preferred style is to see many different women once a month rather than see one woman frequently.
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Once you switch to a monthly arrangement, it can be hard to go back to pay-per-meeting, so if you’re unsure, it may be better not to do it.
I mostly have monthly arrangements, but if the amount or frequency is too demanding, it simply won’t last.
I’ve had a papa (a male supporter) burn out because of that in the past, and I sometimes feel bad about it now.
That said, I’ve had perfectly smooth monthly arrangements with other people. If you get along well with her and keep making plans to meet, then I think a monthly arrangement could work.
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