Tips Jan 25, 2022 06:13

I’m scared that I’m sinking deeper and deeper.

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I’ve been approached by men and started going out to eat with men in their fifties and letting them pay for me, and now I don’t feel anything about it anymore. All that’s left is a sense of emptiness. These men tell me I’m cute, and I suppose there’s a part of me that feels fulfilled inside when I hear that. I even found myself feeling no fear when one of them touched my chest. I just feel empty. Would I feel better if I worked at an upscale club introduced to me through a scout? I’m not sure how to put it, but does this mean I’ve grown up?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I started wondering why people go through scouts to join an upscale club. I wouldn’t say I’ve become more mature—I’ve just become more jaded.
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あや
あや ?
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I’m Aya, a female member. All I can think is, “Why not just get a proper job?” Instead of having dinner with a 50-year-old man, go find some decent work.
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I think you should start by seeing people your own age—over and over again.
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you were picking women up and sleeping with them for free, you’ve hit rock bottom. If you were charging money, that’s actually a good thing.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
That’s just how the world is. If people could get by without joining a dating club or doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—if they were fulfilled—no one would choose to do it. Paper Airplane
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer too. > I realized that even when he touched my breasts, I didn’t feel afraid. I wasn’t quite sure what you meant by that part. Are you saying that it’s normal to feel afraid when someone touches your breasts? That said, if you’re feeling empty, I don’t think going to a high-end club will change anything. It might be best to step away from this world for a while. Then see whether you still want to come back. I feel like that’s the key.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I think it would be a good idea to stop living your life on autopilot. I recommend reassessing your lifestyle and the way you think. I don’t think being introduced to an upscale club would solve anything. Rather than having become an adult, it might be more accurate to say that you’ve become a child who doesn’t think for themselves.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t think you’ve fallen as low as the papas who have money but only give an allowance of 50,000 yen or less per meeting. Once you come here to Universe Club, you’ll be one of the privileged elite. I’d like to say, “Use those fallen samurai—those wealthy papas who pay 50,000 yen or less per meeting—as a stepping stone and ride the updraft!” But they might just drag you down…
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