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Jan 22, 2022 19:36
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
With a monthly arrangement, you receive money even without meeting. With a pay-per-meeting arrangement, you receive money when you meet.
If you’re going to do a monthly arrangement, it’s better to wait until you’re at the point where you won’t make stingy comments even if you don’t meet.
If you’re thinking, “I’m paying ¥500,000, so she needs to meet me enough to make it worth it,” then you just come across as a small-minded guy.
Don’t talk big if you can’t back it up.
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🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Column Writer Flagmaker.
Basically, yes.
I’ve had monthly arrangements twice in the past, and both started when the women said, “You’re giving me too much! A monthly ¥○○ is more than enough.”
The terms were unlimited meetings with no set number of times. Talk about lucky!
One was ¥150,000 a month. The other started at ¥100,000, but she kept lowering it until it ended up under ¥50,000 a month.
You do occasionally come across women like that. Both of them are friends of mine now. Maybe women like that don’t exist at today’s Universe anymore.
I’m the one with the value. The allowance is just an option.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You’re right, just as you suspected.
I’d recommend a monthly arrangement only with someone you’ve gotten close to over time.
I have just one monthly arrangement, and it’s been going on for three years.
So, “Itoshi no Ellie” from Mac’s column is doing well? She wrote that she was mentally falling apart, but if she’s managed to get through it, that’s still pretty amazing.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
I believe you should still pay the monthly allowance even when you can’t meet.
Conversely, with a monthly arrangement, the more often you meet, the cheaper it becomes for the man, doesn’t it?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
With a monthly parking contract, do you not have to pay for months when you don’t park your car there?
If you’re going to make a monthly arrangement, two things are important:
1. Set a limit on the number of adult relationships.
2. Keep the number of adult relationships as low as possible.
For example, if you agreed to four times, keep it to three or fewer.
Increasing the number of adult relationships because you want to “get your money’s worth” is just cheap and downright awful.
If that stresses you out, go with a pay-per-meeting arrangement instead.