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Jan 18, 2022 20:39
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
From the questioner’s perspective, I probably seem pretty uncool.
But that’s totally fine. Sometimes being uncool is what leads to good things happening.
I can occasionally score when it really counts, after all.
You don’t have to look cool from every angle. Even if you have a terrible first half, it’s fine as long as you score in the second half.
It’s okay if some people dislike you, as long as the person you’re aiming for likes you.
What’s truly uncool is pretending you didn’t lose.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
CEO Maezawa here, answering as well.
There’s nothing uncool about it. C originally means there’s about a 50% chance she’ll say yes.
So statistically, you should expect to be turned down by one out of every two women. In reality, around 70% of women say yes, so it’s closer to one rejection in three.
Even so, you’ll still get turned down sometimes.
It mostly comes down to whether you click—something like compatibility.
Some people appeal to almost everyone, while others don’t.
Even if someone like that gets rejected, it may simply be that they weren’t compatible.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
The fact that you’re doing papa-katsu in the first place is already pretty lame…
— Paper Airplane
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think dating for an allowance is uncool in itself, so to me, it’s all pretty much the same.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Just because you’re anonymous doesn’t mean you should make fun of people.
Some women have told me that club staff pressured them into choosing Type C by saying they wouldn’t get many offers as Type A or B. (That was the case with a woman I recently made an offer to.)
It’s true that with Type C women, once you agree on the allowance, it will usually lead to an adult relationship that same day, but…
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
There’s nothing you can do about it! That’s just how things turned out...
I think it’s fine to accept that some people will be turned down in this world...
Even if they call me uncool, I still want to say, “Please don’t reject me...”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Being turned down because the chemistry isn’t there isn’t embarrassing. But a papa (a male supporter) who has good chemistry with someone yet gets rejected for offering a low allowance is just lame.