I find it really off-putting when older gentlemen try to act young by talking like teenagers, saying things like “fuck,” “don’t mess with me,” “exactly,” or “isn’t that gross?”
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I’d much rather see them show a mature, composed charm that sets them apart from younger men.
What qualities make you look at a man you’re seeing and think, “Wow, this older gentleman is so attractive♡”?
And to the men answering, what aspects do you consciously focus on to bring out your mature appeal?
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I think it’s unbecoming for adults to use trendy slang when they’re around younger people. Even if you’re young, speaking proper, beautiful Japanese is naturally more attractive. Though I suppose that goes doubly for older men.
I’m really drawn to the kindness that comes from a man’s natural air of composure.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here, and I’ll answer as well.
Are you showing the appeal of being in your 30s?
If someone asked you that, wouldn’t it be difficult to say whether you are or not?
You may think you’re showing it, but it may not come across that way. And then there’s the whole question of what “appeal appropriate for your age” even means.
That said, I think men who use such crude language are in the minority. If someone spoke that way when applying for membership, they’d probably be turned down with something like, “Unfortunately, we’ll have to decline your application this time.”
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Trying to act young will only make you look outdated before long, so I don’t make any particular effort to pander to younger people.
I don’t even know what aspects of me come across as mature or appealing, so I simply behave as I normally would.
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