Men who say things like, “I did this for you” or “Even though I’ve done so much for you”—how do you deal with people who constantly remind you of their favors?
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(The lower the allowance, the more they seem to do this.)
Do you all expect something in return from the person you’re seeing?
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer too.
> (The lower the allowance, the more so)
I kind of get what you mean. (Haha)
I think it’s probably better to part ways with someone like that.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I tailor what I say depending on how close we are. If we’re genuinely close and have a deep relationship, I’ll be blunt. Otherwise, I try to keep things diplomatic.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think, “I did this for her,” nor do I particularly expect anything in return.
On the other hand, I wouldn’t want to meet a woman who acts like she’s doing me a favor by sleeping with an older guy.
You’re not like that, are you?
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I’m a male member—and a bit of a loser.
I never say anything condescending like “I did that for you,” but I do end up wanting something in return. I still have a lot to learn about being a papa.
That said, with my ace, I may be managing to maintain a relationship without expecting anything in return about half the time. Even though we have a monthly arrangement, there are months when we don’t meet and months when we don’t have an adult relationship.
I never suggest meeting myself—I leave everything entirely up to my ace. If she doesn’t contact me, we don’t meet, and if she doesn’t say she wants an adult relationship, we don’t have one.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think you should just ignore it.
Of course I expect something in return. If I wanted to donate without expecting anything back, I’d donate to a professional organization. So if I feel the arrangement isn’t worth the allowance, I go our separate ways. I’m sure women also consider whether someone is a good fit for them.
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