I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I’m really not good at asking for things.
As long as I’m receiving an allowance and can continue seeing a papa I like, I think I’d be happier if I simply accepted that as enough for now.
Maybe papas like that clumsy, genuine innocence too.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well.
> I’m not good at asking for things, and I always feel like I’m the one losing out.
You probably are losing out in some ways.
But it’s not easy to change your personality, and becoming better at leaning on others can be difficult too. So I think it’s better to consider how you can live with your current personality.
Rather than thinking, “I’m losing out, so I want to stop losing out,” accept that you may not be able to change that completely, and think about how you can make life easier for yourself on that basis.
There will definitely be people who like you as you are now. I think it’s enough to aim for a relationship with someone who accepts you for who you are.
Of course, if you’re confident you can improve certain aspects of your personality, I think it’s worth giving it a try.
Just don’t forget that there are many different ways to live and many different choices you can make.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Women who are good at asking for what they want are often simply comfortable saying what they don’t like and what they do like.
If you try too hard to “ask for things,” it can feel awkward and turn men off. Instead, why not approach it as simply expressing your preferences in a healthy, straightforward way?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s simply part of your personality. I’m not comfortable with women who act overly dependent or spoiled, and I’m sure there are other men who feel the same way. So it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re losing out.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If you genuinely like your papa (a male supporter), I’m sure he can tell.
I’m not sure what you mean by saying you’re losing out, but isn’t that enough?
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