I’ve been dating my boyfriend for four months. During the first month, we didn’t sleep together, but ever since we became intimate, we have sex every time we meet. When I stay over, we do it three or four times, and sometimes we don’t even leave the room—we just do that.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I thought fewer people used the phrase “only after your body” these days, but in the first place, I think it’s better to assume that almost no one’s sole objective is physical. Physical intimacy may be one of their goals too, but it’s probably not their only goal. That said, there’s also the possibility that you’re simply a convenient woman for him. I feel like you can figure that out by looking at the situation as a whole—for example, whether he ever takes you out or spends time with you outside of that. As for him refusing to use a condom, you should make sure to clarify whether he’d be okay with you having the baby, whether he intends to raise it with you, and whether he would run away. Of course, it also depends on whether you yourself would be okay with having the baby.

I’m Aya, a female member. You should tell your boyfriend exactly how you feel and share your concerns with him. This will show you whether he’ll stop when you’re not comfortable—not just expect you to go along with everything—and whether he’ll genuinely take your worries seriously.

Seattle. If he’s posting you on Instagram, he may be devoted to you. You’re just too attractive. If you got pregnant, would he be someone you’d be willing to marry? Is he financially stable? Even if your boyfriend is handsome now, 20 years from now he’ll just be an old man.