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Why can I be careful with the money I receive from my parents, but feel no need to value the money I get from my papa (a male supporter)?

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No matter how much of the money from my papa (a male supporter) I spend, it just keeps increasing, so I don’t feel attached to it at all.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer as well. I think many people still cherish money they receive from their papa (a male supporter), so it sounds like you may be struggling with a dilemma deep down. You want to save the money, but at the same time, you also want to get it out of your hands as soon as possible because it feels like money you shouldn’t keep. I think those conflicting feelings may be making it difficult for you to value it.
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I’m in Seattle. I honestly don’t get it at all. Make the most of the opportunity you have now and save enough to last you a lifetime. Once you get close to 100 million yen, it becomes fun watching your savings accounts grow.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. You have an interesting perspective, considering it’s the same money. Once you put it in the bank, it seems like you wouldn’t be able to tell whether it came from an allowance or from your parents… I suppose it can’t be helped if you’re imposing that kind of bias on your own thinking. Still, it’s better that the money is building up rather than being wasted.
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I’m Aya, a female member. If you’re already working, then you’re an adult and responsible for yourself, so that’s not really my problem. But if you’re still around 20, your attitude toward money is heavily influenced by your parents. Depending on how you were raised, you might be frugal or a spender—or you might grow up hating money or loving it. To put it bluntly, it seems your parents didn’t do a very good job teaching you how to handle money. Some people can still value even unexpected windfalls, after all. Blame your parents.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s because it’s easy money.
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