I want to get back together with my papa (a male supporter).
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Would it be a bad idea to tell him what I think I could have done better and that I’d like to see him again, regardless of how things turn out?
It’s been a month since we last saw each other, and I feel like he may already be making offers to other women.
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too.
> Putting the outcome aside, wouldn’t it make you feel uncomfortable?
If the papa (a male supporter) was the one who suggested ending things, there was probably a reason for it, so even if he asked to get back together, I think he might find it a hassle.
But if things simply ended naturally, or if you were the one who ended it, then—as long as the outcome isn’t the issue—I don’t think he’d feel uncomfortable. In fact, I think many men would be happy about it.
I also think many men still have lingering feelings. So when the woman was the one who ended things, they’re often more likely to get back together—as long as she didn’t insult or verbally abuse him when they parted.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I don’t think you should mention what you feel you could have done better.
It will only make you come across as emotionally heavy.
Just honestly tell her that you’d like to see her again. If she says no, it’s best to move on.
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I’m Ayase Nana♡
If you like him that much, I think it’s okay to tell him, but I have a feeling the outcome won’t be good. I just hope you won’t end up getting hurt…
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
When it comes to relationships, I believe the right approach is to be “swift as the wind.” Men may make offers to other women as well, but I think you should act before you become too close to someone else.
Whether the other person feels hurt depends on how you end things and how you communicate with them.
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I got back together with my “former” ideal supporter about two months ago, and we’re getting along well now.
It’s actually more fun than it was before we broke up.
I was the one who ended things, but after quite some time had passed, my former ideal supporter sent me a text. On our fourth date, I told him, “Let’s give it another try,” and we got back together.
It was obvious that my former ideal supporter didn’t have the courage to say he wanted to start over, so I brought it up myself and he gladly agreed.
I hope things work out for you too.
That said, one month feels a little too soon…
It might be better to leave about six months in between, with one different papa (male supporter) in between.
To a papa, six months flies by—one month probably feels like just three days.
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