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If there are often long silences during our time together, does that mean we’re not a good match?

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Do you all never run out of things to talk about with the women you’ve been seeing long-term?
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綾瀬なな
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡ Even if the silence goes on, simply looking at the same view together makes me feel excited and truly happy. When I start thinking I have to say something, I end up becoming even more unable to talk. Even over lunch, there are things you can say, like, “This is so good~♡” and so on.
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Fuu
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. There are moments of silence, and eventually the conversation runs out. But for me, it’s already a relationship where that doesn’t feel uncomfortable. For example, during a quiet moment, we might make eye contact and smile at each other. She might say, “This is delicious,” and I might say, “You look beautiful today,” or “You’re cute today, too.” A simple smile and a few words are enough for both of us. I hope you can also reach a point where it’s okay even when you run out of things to talk about…
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I’m Aya, a female member. I think you’re compatible when silence between you doesn’t feel awkward. It’s also tough when you have to keep talking nonstop just to fill the silence.
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茉莉花
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I feel like being able to sit in silence without things getting awkward is a sign of good chemistry. That applies to dating clubs, regardless of gender. Marika
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カズ
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I’m Kazu, a male member. I never run out of things to talk about, but I don’t think having periods of silence necessarily means two people aren’t compatible. It really depends on the individuals.
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