The men at the club are way too old. Is there any way to attract a younger crowd?
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Men in their 50s are nearly at retirement age and practically old enough to need caregiving, aren’t they? It’s tough for us PJs to keep seeing nothing but dried-up old men.
I feel like it would be much more fun if there were more younger papas around.
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> The men at the club are way too old on average. Is there any way to attract more younger men?
If we got rid of the setting fee, I think more young men without much money would join—but wouldn’t that basically make it the same as free social media platforms?
I hear that many of them offer low allowances, around ¥10,000–¥20,000.
On top of that, there would be pranksters who never show up at the meeting place, men who say they’ll pay the allowance later and then disappear, or recruiters who meet you and say things like, “You could earn more working in the adult entertainment industry.”
It sounds like it could be pretty difficult, but is that really preferable?
If that’s what you want, then I think you might as well use one of the existing free social media platforms.
I believe Universe’s male members are, on average, considerably younger than those at other dating clubs.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Young, wealthy men have women flocking to them without needing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Questioner, are you a Minato Ward girl? Maybe you could try working hard at paid parties around Nishiazabu and aim to land a young successful man.
The competition seems pretty fierce, though.
That said, I imagine papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is probably easier and gives you better odds...
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Statistically speaking, people in their 50s are the highest-earning generation. So, even in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), where a high income is basically a prerequisite, it’s only natural that there would be more men in their 50s.
If you don’t like that, go fall in love on Tinder with some generic, aesthetically handsome guy who says, “I’m 29, work in consulting, earn ¥6–8 million a year, and enjoy futsal and listening to music.”
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I’m Nana Ayase♡
If you’re young and have money, you don’t need an exclusive dating club or anything like that.
The people on dating apps are definitely younger, so please use an app instead.
But I can’t guarantee your safety.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
If it only cost a few hundred yen to meet someone and the allowance was, say, ¥15,000, I bet more young men would get involved.
Oh, wait—that’s not papa-katsu. That’s a dating site.
You should use a dating site.
Apparently, when women are very active on dating sites, people connected to organized crime come by to sell them “security services.” If you sign up and give them part of your allowance, they’ll apparently come to your rescue if you meet a dangerous man. If you ask the people you’re paying for help, they’ll even come to your hotel room and yell at the guy for you, so you can feel safe♡
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
That’s a good question（笑）
I’m on the older side myself, so I’m a little curious too.
That said, when you think about why male members use dating clubs, perhaps it becomes easier to accept reality:
- Younger men can find partners without using a dating club.
- Using a dating club requires money for dating.
In other words, dating clubs attract men who, for various reasons, can’t find partners on their own but can afford the cost of dating.
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