I asked a woman who’s been seeing me for about a year to try a particularly kinky activity.

I won’t go into exactly what it was because it’s a little too graphic, but I thought it was quite a lot to ask, so I offered to increase her allowance at the same time. She got angry and said that increasing her allowance made her feel like a sex worker. In the end, she went along with it without any increase in her allowance, so I’m fine with how things turned out—but I don’t really understand why she was upset. Are there many women who would feel offended like she did in this kind of situation?