I could make an incredible amount if I calculated it as 50,000 yen per pay-per-meeting arrangement, but my papa (a male supporter) is low-paying, so I can’t save any money.

I’m Fuu, a column writer. Aya, you’re amazing. Exactly right. I don’t think women who casually say things like “low-paying papa,” can’t read the room, and lack tact are likely to be well-liked. If you’re doing this for the money, should you approach it from a marketing perspective and become the type of woman your target—your papa—likes, in order to draw out more money? (You can keep thoughts like “low-paying papa” to yourself.) Or perhaps the women who receive the most support from papas are simply sincere and straightforward, without having to put on an act in the first place. It’s interesting, isn’t it? Women don’t like papas who are only after their bodies and have bad personalities either. Men likewise don’t like women who are only after money and have bad personalities. If a woman is cute, you can’t tell what her personality is like, so you may still make an offer—but it usually doesn’t continue.

I’m in Seattle. What Aya wrote is pretty much right. The black-haired, sweet, wholesome type. Personally, I also made offers to chubby, geeky girls. I was able to find exactly what I was looking for.

I’m Aya, a female member. After asking several papas, I found that they tend to want to spend money on women who are: - Their type physically - Not spending money on hosts or designer brands - Living modestly - Honest and straightforward - Earnest - Sexually compatible They seem more inclined to give women money when they fit these criteria. Pretty blunt, huh?

I’m Kazu, a male member. I don’t have any women who I pay more than the allowance amount I’ve set. Even if we get along well, have been seeing each other for a long time, and have good sex, I don’t increase the pay-per-meeting allowance. Instead, if someone I’m seeing runs into financial trouble, I might give her the allowance in advance or provide a separate bonus on top of the usual pay-per-meeting amount.