What’s the appeal for a papa (a male supporter) who won’t set a date to meet but regularly sends LINE messages about random small talk? Is it like, “I’ll keep in touch so she’ll be available when I’m really bored”?
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I actually feel like reaching out first to a papa who sees me often, but with one I only see occasionally—or don’t know when I’ll see next—I end up thinking, “Why am I putting so much effort into keeping this conversation going? Just give me some money.”
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Wouldn’t it solve everything if you always replied to messages with something like, “I love you so much ♡ Let’s meet tomorrow ♡”—just keep pushing to meet♡?
Then, if they say they can’t meet or keep dodging the issue, just leave them on read.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I think he’s simply using you as a way to kill time with a woman he’s keeping on the back burner. If I feel a papa is worth cultivating, I’ll turn him into a generous supporter through LINE. But if you don’t like that, all you can do is reply casually.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
If he won’t meet you, either end things—or keep him as a backup and leave his messages unread.
If you leave them unread, won’t your papa naturally start messaging you less?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think he’s probably just killing time—much like you are by posting a question here.
Why not reply, “If you want to chat, pay me”?
If you’re going to ask pointless questions, pay me.
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