I’m getting married soon, and I’m thinking of leaving this world behind at the same time.
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I’d love to hear from all of you about what’s necessary to stay close with the person you love, even as you grow old together.
What caused your relationship with your spouse to deteriorate?
Do you have any regrets?
If you could go back, what would you have done differently? Anything you’d like to share would be appreciated.
Thank you.
I’m in Seattle.
When you’re angry, please express it in polite, gentle words.
Being yelled at made me dislike him more and more, until I finally got divorced.
Marriage is nothing but trouble, so you’re better off not getting married. I have zero regrets.
Save a secret stash of money so you can leave whenever you want.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
How rude. Why assume that my marriage is unhappy?
You’re half right, but also wrong.
The truth is, “Sometimes a couple gets along well, and sometimes they don’t.” We don’t get divorced just because there are times when our relationship isn’t good.
I think being able to tolerate the bad parts is more important than how satisfied you are with the good parts.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
As Nana-san also mentioned, patience is very important.
Other than one particular issue, my wife and I actually have a good relationship (lol). Even between spouses, it’s not good to force yourself to do things you don’t want to do. I think it’s best to build a relationship where you can say you can’t do something when you can’t.
I’m sure your husband will find a way to resolve things on his own.
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I’m Ayase Nana ☆
You shouldn’t see everything about your partner.
Try to see less than half. Once you start noticing the parts you dislike, your feelings can cool off all at once.
Are you a woman, by any chance?
Please make a delicious dinner for him.
Have him help with the housework a little, too. If the woman isn’t working, she should do about 80% of the housework.
Marriage requires a lot of patience. Can you handle it?
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