Do you give them your business card?

I used to introduce myself as Saito, the columnist ♪, but I stopped. The reason is that women would tell other male members about me. Some male members would ask, supposedly just as a topic of conversation, what kind of men they were seeing. There were women who ended up telling them because they seemed like nice people. As a result, there was a time when it became known that I was registered with a dating club. Since then, I’ve stopped handing out business cards and instead try to be the kind of man women can feel comfortable with even without one. I was also surprised by how many women look up your real name online. I found that out through women’s discussion groups that I organize independently.