Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Nov 23, 2018 18:08
When can I expect to receive the results of the pass/fail decision?
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📅 Nov 23, 2018 17:01
I’ve heard they’re divided into categories A through D. Could someone explain specifically how far each group goes?
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📅 Nov 22, 2018 18:06
Even without being told their rank, female members can get a rough idea of it from the class listed on the male member’s profile sent when they receive an offer and the date is confirmed, right? Seeing this, I realized I had been downgraded from the rank the men had already told me, and I’m a little hurt. Why are male members’ ranks displayed? Is there some reason for this?
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📅 Nov 22, 2018 12:49
A pattern I noticed after receiving offers from more than 30 women: “The less pleasant a woman is, the higher her asking price tends to be.” Is this a straightforward chain of cause and effect—“unpleasant attitude → bad personality → self-centered thinking → higher demands”—or is it more of a feedback loop: “(the woman is) unpleasant → (she) dislikes me → (from her perspective, as compensation for having to put up with me) her asking pr...
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📅 Nov 21, 2018 19:34
For male members: how long do relationships with female members typically last? Please share your own experiences. (1) What percentage continue after the first meeting—that is, result in a second date? (2) If things continue to a second date, how many dates do you typically go on on average? (3) How do these relationships usually end? Does one person say, “I don’t want to meet anymore,” or do they simply end when one person stops reachi...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
① Women I see a second time
50%
② How often I go on dates after the second one
Once a month. If I don’t meet another wonderful woman, I’ll continue indefinitely.
③ How things end
When I meet someone better than the woman I’m currently seeing, I gradually stop contacting her.
In some cases, I don’t even mark her messages as read. (I’ve come to feel that this causes fewer problems.)
I used to explain things properly, but I couldn’t seem…
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 20:40
I’m a female member. I’ve heard that the staff write things about female members on their profiles. What kind of information do they include? I’m unsure what to write in the comment section and how detailed I should be. If my personal information is already listed there, it would be redundant, so I’d appreciate it if you could tell me what you can disclose. Thank you.
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, the club representative, will answer.
Below is an example of a club comment I wrote about a woman I interviewed years ago. Please use it as a reference.
*The information is presented in a way that does not identify the individual. She has since left the club.*
25-year-old pastry chef ○○.
The first thing to keep in mind is that she has no real connection with polite language. Even basic formal speech may be a struggle for her.
“Wouldn’t D be a good fit for you?”
→ “…
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 19:22
After watching DiCaprio in “The Wolf of Wall Street,” I jumped into a dating club because I wanted to live that kind of life. I’m amazed at how much better I perform at work the more I spend on dating. I wish I’d discovered this sooner. Are there any members who feel the same way? (※Since I’m in Japan, I’m not doing drugs.)
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, the club’s representative, will answer this one.
That scene where he drives a Ferrari while completely high and then beats someone to a pulp was pretty wild, wasn’t it? DiCaprio is really good at those kinds of roles—people who are high, boys with developmental disabilities, and so on.
Your question was:
“Are there any members who feel the same way?”
Since no male members have responded in agreement, perhaps there aren’t any.
Personally, I don’t think many people w…
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 13:22
What are men who ask you to marry them through a dating club misunderstanding? (I think there are quite a few of them)
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 12:34
Lately, I’ve repeatedly found myself disappointed after being intimate with women in their early twenties. Even allowing for it being our first time, they seemed reluctant to kiss, said things like “Don’t touch me there so much,” “Would it be okay to use a condom for oral?” “Just put it in quickly,” and “Finish quickly.” Then they showered immediately afterward. For intimacy like that, I feel it was worth only around 5,000 yen, yet I’m ...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
To the person who asked this question… that must have been a shock.
If there was a man willing to offer her that much, why is she being intimate with you for so little?
Most likely, that man has since found someone special, and because things didn’t continue under those terms, she may have had no choice but to lower her expectations.
Since this is a free-choice relationship, I imagine each woman has conditions she refuses to compromise on when deal…
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 09:45
You get to visit places you could never afford on your own, enjoy delicious food for free, have experiences you normally couldn’t, hear stories about worlds you know nothing about, be made to feel good, and even receive some spending money. I’ve met around ten women, and every one of them said, almost in unison, “They were all good people.” You may occasionally encounter a man who is unbearable to be around, but I get the impression tha...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
There are many women involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I don’t think you can make a blanket statement. That said, I do think Universe Club has relatively few of them.
(There are various ways of putting it and different perspectives, but if that’s how you feel, I agree with you.)
However, I also know of women who met someone through a dating club and later took their own lives.
Of course, I don’t know whether the cause w…
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 07:50
I’m the man who asked about arranging a threesome the other day. We’re looking for one woman and two men, so we need another male participant. Would it be possible to introduce us to a trustworthy male member? It’s apparently been her dream for many years, and I’d like to make it come true for her.
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, the representative, will answer this one.
I was surprised to learn that there’s actually a demand like that. I was also impressed by how many different dreams women have when it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I’d hesitate to send a message to our male members saying, “Please contact us if you’re open to 3P.” However, if I happened to receive similar requests from two separate people around the same time, I might introduce them to each other—with bo…
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 02:10
Is it okay to report a date with a female member who appears to have left the service (her profile is no longer visible) in the survey?
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📅 Nov 20, 2018 02:07
I’m a male member. A female member I was previously introduced to has been listed again after we went on a few dates and then lost touch on LINE. Would it be possible for the club to contact her and introduce me to her again?
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📅 Nov 19, 2018 21:12
What percentage of women are business owners, self-employed, or otherwise running their own businesses?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I don’t think the club would be able to keep track of that.
Among the women I’ve met, there were quite a few with backgrounds like these:
・Wanting to start a business and build a network
・Already running a business but looking for some excitement
・Wanting to raise funds here to start a company
・Nominal business owners from beauty pageants, involved in nature-related causes or helping children
・Importing cosmetics and clothing overseas and se…
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📅 Nov 19, 2018 16:05
I was shocked when a gold-ranked college student said, “I have a papa who gives me 1 million yen,” then actually pulled out a banded stack of bills from her bag. They were real. That day, she had lunch with that papa (lunch only), then met with me in the evening. Are there any members who have also given—or received—1 million yen? (By the way, I was so shocked that I haven’t been able to meet that girl again, haha.)
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Since this is a freely chosen relationship, men like that do exist.
That said, I don’t know whether it’s still ongoing. Maybe she did something worth paying 1 million yen for, or perhaps the man simply paid because he thought, “I guess that’s how these things work.” Maybe he paid two months’ worth of a monthly arrangement at once.
Or maybe it was wages from a hostess club or some other adult-entertainment job, since it was paid in cash. Maybe sh…
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📅 Nov 19, 2018 15:32
Was I fundamentally misguided to think I could boost my self-esteem as a middle-aged man through a dating club? (M)
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📅 Nov 19, 2018 10:05
Emptiness, loneliness, bitterness… Is this what it’s like for men once they’re over 50?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
Column writer Joe here.
We’re around the same age, so I really understand how you feel. In my limited experience, unfortunately—or perhaps not—that’s just how things are. But aren’t emptiness, heartache, and bitterness part of what makes life so rich?
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📅 Nov 18, 2018 20:58
Have allowance rates been trending downward lately?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito♪, the columnist.
I think so too.
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📅 Nov 18, 2018 16:10
A question for the male members. I’m seeing someone who told me he wants to pursue a relationship with marriage in mind, but what should I make of him suddenly saying he’s too busy with work to meet?? Does this mean he no longer wants to see me? He’s canceled on me at the last minute several times in a row, saying he’s too busy with work—even on days when we already had plans to meet. It all happened so suddenly, and I’m shocked and uns...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
A man who gets asked to marry through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)…
Honestly, are you sure you’re okay with a man like that?
I used to wonder whether anyone ever met through dating sites and ended up getting married, but I was surprised to find that it has actually happened to someone around me. I only know one such person, but it made me think that maybe it isn’t completely impossible.
That said, even though the women say, “Oh no,…
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📅 Nov 18, 2018 11:43
Two years since joining. I was completely absorbed. I’ve already been involved with four times as many women as I had been over the previous 50 years. And they were exceptionally attractive. Even so, it all slipped away like sand. Trying it made me realize it all the more. It’s no good, this kind of dating. Don’t you think?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I couldn’t help but watch this with a warm, fuzzy feeling.
I understand exactly how you feel.
The cars, investments, and company I’ve been passionate about up to now may all be the same.
When we eventually face death, perhaps our entire lives will feel that way.
Getting bored quickly.
Could it be that this ability is precisely why your business has been so successful?
I think it’s a wonderful ability.
And yet, whenever I wonder whether I…