Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Feb 14, 2019 01:04
When a woman registers, it seems her photo may be featured on the website or Instagram, but some branches don’t post photos at all. Since it doesn’t seem like every woman who registers gets featured, are only high-ranking women selected?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here with an answer.
The photos we post on Instagram don’t show the woman’s face, but we still get her permission before posting them.
Even when her face isn’t visible, some women may decline because they’re worried they could be recognized by things like:
- Their chest
- Their legs
- Their clothes
Sometimes, right after a photo is posted, we’ll receive a message saying, “That’s a photo of me, even though my face isn’t showing. Please delete it.”
They may have be…
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📅 Feb 14, 2019 00:16
Is it possible to dine at restaurants I couldn’t afford on my own, hear about a world I know nothing about, occasionally receive gifts and an allowance—but absolutely never have sex?! What percentage of men and women who actually go on dates have sex? What are the specific locations and typical flow of these dates?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa answers.
> But is it really possible to say, “I absolutely won’t have sex!!!”?
Assuming the person asking is a woman, I have to wonder whether saying “absolutely not” from the outset is really the right approach.
I mean, I assume you’ve dated men normally before. When you went on your first date with someone, did you say, “I absolutely don’t want to have sex,” before going out with him? That’s what I find myself wondering.
Maybe you’re still a virgin and have date…
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📅 Feb 13, 2019 21:11
Whenever I post comments or photos, I become a topic of conversation in groups of male members who have contacted me before, and they reach out to me privately. This is more bothersome than dealing with women. I know that’s just how people are, but it’s still exhausting. I feel trapped, and it’s painful.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist and male member♪
My advice is not to worry about it.
There was once a woman who made sure that any man who had ever made her an offer—even once—could no longer view her profile.
However, some male members join through referrals, and they can have another man look her up for them. Before long, it becomes, “Please make sure I can’t be seen by that man, or the man who referred him, or the man who referred him…”
When men contact women privately, they ma…
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📅 Feb 13, 2019 18:14
Are there any age restrictions for signing up? I’m actually in my mid-40s. However, I look much younger than my age, I’m confident about my appearance, and I’m active on a well-known streaming app, where I’m generally seen as being in my 20s. I’ve worked in fashion, so I occasionally did modeling as well. In the past, I’ve met several people while presenting myself as being around that age. Do I have to list my age on my profile? Since ...
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Kida, our representative, will answer this one.
I believe there was an age limit for registration—if I remember correctly, it was up to your 40s.
Can you register?
→ Yes, you can. However, depending on the branch, you may be asked to do a video interview before the in-person interview or submit a photo. Once you pass the photo screening, you’ll likely move on to the full screening process.
If you’re active in your 20s on a certain famous streaming app, you should pass wi…
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📅 Feb 13, 2019 11:05
How much of a woman’s information is made public? Things like her hometown, birthday, blood type, and so on… Is only the same information that women can see made available?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
The publicly available information is almost exactly the same as what women can see.
The only difference is the comments from the club.
Those aren’t visible to women. (They may include notes such as “canceled the day before” or “neatly lined up his shoes during the interview.”)
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📅 Feb 13, 2019 07:17
What should I do when I start feeling empty about having a financial relationship with a woman, even if it’s a simulated romance?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
This time of year feels like that, doesn’t it?
For me, January through March also feels like the off-season.
Saying it’s not mating season would be rather crude, though.
“Feeling empty”
might be the same thing as yesterday: a sign of decline.
Maybe you joined a dating club because doing the same thing as yesterday started to feel empty.
Only you know the real reason.
Still, rather than using a dating club, wouldn’t it be better to rely on you…
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📅 Feb 12, 2019 20:19
I took the plunge and bought a Picasso drawing. It certainly cost a fortune, but I’d never seen anything of this quality before, and I felt I’d never get another chance to own something at this level. I hung it low on the bathroom wall. That’s the time and place when I can sit and stare at it the longest during the day. It got me thinking: shouldn’t I spend money this way at a dating club, too?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist ♪
I completely agree.
Displaying it in the restroom is pretty hilarious too.
And the fact that it’s a little on the low side is a nice touch.
I suppose even that eventually gets boring...
New things are created because people get bored.
Maybe that’s the fate of being an entrepreneur.
I think it’s worth trying out a dating club in all sorts of ways until you get bored of it.
As Nonta suggested, you could meet several people.
You, the question…
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📅 Feb 12, 2019 20:05
What should I do if I’m starting to get bored with the dating club I joined? How can I break out of this rut?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito♪, a columnist and current male member.
Another option might be trying a new venue.
(I’m not sure if I’m allowed to mention that.)
I’ll consider it too as a way to break out of this rut.
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📅 Feb 12, 2019 10:38
I’ve heard the going rate is around 30,000 to 50,000 yen. I generally understand the level women expect from dating, as well as the actual expenses involved. I suppose that’s just how it is. That said, from a man’s perspective, how many women are there who are worth 30,000 or 50,000 yen (in most cases, for sex)? 30,000 yen is about the price of a dinner course at a three-star restaurant. 50,000 yen is about the price of an S-class seat ...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist and an active male member♪
This may not be exactly what you were asking, but men really do find themselves looking for women who bring them good fortune.
- You feel energized after meeting her.
- Something good happens around the time you meet her.
- Your income has risen significantly since you started seeing her.
When you find someone like that—and then narrow it down to beautiful women—the percentage of women who bring good fortune becomes even sm…
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📅 Feb 12, 2019 06:21
Chiba Branch What do you think about being listed on adult entertainment job boards?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Our representative, Kida, will answer this one.
I was about to launch into a full-on rebuttal, but Maezawa jumped in and wrote a response, which helped me cool off.
That said, I wondered, “Are we still running ads on adult entertainment job sites?” So I checked—and we’re running a ton of them. Full steam ahead.
Tsubuyaki Banīta posts every two hours, so you can really see how serious they are.
The information is all properly included, which was reassuring. Excellent!
We …
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📅 Feb 11, 2019 21:10
Would it be all right to visit my registered branch before six months have passed—not for a reshoot, but simply to express my thanks? The first email said, “Please come visit us,” so if possible, I’d like to make an appointment in advance… I haven’t been with the club for very long, but I’ve been deeply impressed by the staff’s kindness and by how wonderful the male members I’ve met have been. Around the time the cherry blossoms begin t...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
> I was under the impression that both male and female members have to pay separately for individual consultations at a branch.
The additional fee only applies to male members.
(Black members can consult for free up to twice.)
Female members are not charged.
So it’s perfectly fine for you to visit before six months have passed.
That said, as you mentioned, some branches are busy, so I can’t say how much time they’ll be able to set aside for you.
However…
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📅 Feb 11, 2019 14:40
I’m considering registering as a female member, but would it be difficult if I have visible self-harm scars? Thank you in advance.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I’ll answer as Maezawa as well.
Scars from self-harm can actually be a factor that lowers your evaluation among staff. I personally haven’t been very concerned about them, so I tend to think male members probably don’t care that much either, but some members do notice them, so the staff may also view them somewhat strictly.
That said, if you’re attractive or cute and seem likely to be popular based on your appearance, having self-harm scars won’t affect you at all. Men will…
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📅 Feb 11, 2019 11:45
The allure of a woman’s body is incredible. Yesterday, my soul was practically sucked out of me—I was dead, telling myself, “It’s not that I’m perverted; this body is the devil.” Are the female staff at Universe generally formidable women in their own right as well? Do you feel that their assets are being put to good use within the club?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa will answer as well.
> Yesterday, I had the life drained out of me and was completely wiped out.
That means you had an incredible experience, right? I’m glad to hear you were satisfied.
I don’t know what the women at Universe think, but they’ve been exposed to feedback from all kinds of women and men, so I can’t help thinking they must have gained a tremendous amount of experience—even seeing the darker sides of men and the more calculating sides of women.
At the …
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📅 Feb 11, 2019 11:15
Do I have to be prepared to meet people like that Ibaraki ronin-looking guy? Is there no way to find out beforehand or turn them down in advance?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, a columnist and active male member.
A “fallen samurai” from Ibaraki who doesn’t pay anything… I can understand how you feel. That said, I sometimes get the chance to see male members at events, and I’ve never seen anyone quite as extreme as him.
Once, at a dinner party hosted by another dating club, I saw someone who came relatively close to that “fallen samurai” look. He was wearing a baggy sweater with a teddy bear embroidered on it, had an unsettling vibe,…
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📅 Feb 11, 2019 05:28
Would it be difficult to join for only a short period (about two months)? Can I cancel my membership as soon as I decide I want to leave?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
You can join for a short period, and you can cancel your membership at any time.
We may ask why you’re leaving, but Universe’s policy is not to pressure anyone into staying.
That said, depending on the reason, we might say something like, “If it’s because you haven’t received any offers, why not wait a little longer?”
But that’s only a suggestion. If you say you’d like to cancel, we’ll process your withdrawal.
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📅 Feb 11, 2019 01:32
I’m a male member, and I have some questions about “dinner gatherings” and “Let’s get together!” (1) When and by whom is the transportation allowance supposed to be given? (2) I assume the gathering lasts four hours, but is the format something like a first session (two hours) followed by a second session (two hours)? (3) It says, “After the dinner gathering, it depends on how the two of you feel about each other.” Does “dinner gatherin...
💬 Answer from Responder:
I’m Imai, the coordinator for dining parties and mixers in Tokyo, and I’ll answer your questions.
(1) When and by whom is the transportation allowance given?
A. The gentleman gives it directly to the woman. As long as he doesn’t forget, the timing is up to him.
(2) I believe the event lasts four hours. Is the format something like a first gathering (two hours) followed by a second gathering (two hours)?
A. We ask the women to set aside four hours.
In some cases, the s…
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📅 Feb 10, 2019 23:02
I’m a female member. Men can see the face in my profile photo, right? I can only see the photo from the neck down on my end, so what should I do if I want to check my own photo?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Maezawa here.
The photo you can see on your profile is the one displayed in the women’s listings, and men can see that photo as well.
As for why a photo showing only the area below the neck was selected as the first photo, I believe the staff member you met thought it would be more likely to get men to click on it and view your profile.
After clicking, they can see your profile details and other photos, but some of those photos may not be visible to women.
(The men can s…
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📅 Feb 10, 2019 20:51
I’d like to have sex with an actress. Are there any available? I mean a mainstream actress, not an adult video performer.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito♪, an active male member and columnist.
I joined an exclusive dating club with feelings very similar to yours.
I had the impression that women could have tea with men and easily receive money, while at the same time, I imagined that the clubs were full of gorgeous women and even celebrities whom ordinary men would never get to meet. Haha.
(The club may delete the following if there are any issues.)
When I first joined, I kept requesting introductions so I could m…
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📅 Feb 10, 2019 14:02
How long does it take for my profile to appear after I attend the interview?
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📅 Feb 10, 2019 12:42
Looking through the Q&A posts, it seems many people believe the woman receiving money is in the weaker position. I think we should be equals, since this is simply a case of supply and demand matching. Am I wrong? Does the person paying the money have the upper hand? If we consider spending a night together a service, isn’t it that the man wants to spend the night with that woman enough to pay for it, while the woman wants money enough t...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
After reading your question, I wondered if you feel that way because this Q&A forum tends to reflect the male perspective…
What if this were a women-only group, and posts like these became common?
“This guy tried to negotiate for only ¥〇〇, so I got annoyed, took just the transportation money, and left.”
“My papa (a male supporter) asked to lower my allowance starting next month, so I dropped him.”
Would that really make the women the ones in cha…