Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.

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Tips 📅 Mar 1, 2019 14:31

The reverse-offer system is hereーーー(゜∀゜)ーーー!!!!! The male members are absolutely thrilled, but there’s one major concern. With this system, will male profiles also be shown to female members who already have a meeting arranged? Just as female members can hide themselves from specific male members, would it be possible to hide male profiles from female members who have already received an offer? If that isn’t currently possible, I’d like...

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here—I’ll answer too. The reverse-offer system hasn’t even been made public internally, so I don’t know the details. But when I asked the person who’s developing the program, they said: “As for implementing a feature that allows female members to individually exclude certain male profiles from search results, it would probably be best if male members could manage that themselves. We’ll look into it, though it’s uncertain whether we’ll have time to implement it.” Wh…
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Tips 📅 Mar 1, 2019 13:02

I’m a female member. I was receiving offers for a while after joining, but lately they’ve dropped off considerably, so I’m thinking about attending an event. However, I’m worried that only exceptionally cute girls attend these events, and I feel a little intimidated wondering whether I’d really fit in. Could someone give me a rough idea of what proportion of attendees come from each class at these events? I’d also like to know what the ...

💬 Answer from 逢沢 大和: Aizawa here. Thank you very much for your interest in our events. Actually, I’d love for you to be interested in the events regardless of whether you receive an offer! The types of women who attend vary depending on the event, so it’s hard to say that any particular class is most common... If I had to compare it to something, the breakdown is generally similar to the overall distribution of women’s classes. Women in the platinum and black classes do attend, but they’re…
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Tips 📅 Feb 28, 2019 20:51

What kinds of problems do you think arise for members when women aren’t told what class they’ve been registered in? As a male member, I feel that the following problems are occurring at present. ● Female members: They lose confidence because they’ve been assigned a higher class than expected. They thought they would receive lots of offers, but because they were placed in a relatively high class, no offers come in and they lose confidenc...

💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪: I’m Saito, a column writer♪ I probably shouldn’t be the one answering this, but as you said, it does seem that recently, something like a going rate has become recognized (or at least more widely known). The Standard tier has also started asking for higher amounts, while allowances for Black-ranked women have actually been going down. (Some women are trying hard to keep the going rate from dropping, but it feels like the whole thing is on the verge of collapsing...) Even…
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Tips 📅 Feb 28, 2019 19:47

How much information about women is disclosed to male members?

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Tips 📅 Feb 28, 2019 19:43

Are most of the registered doctors in private practice? I’m considering signing up, but I work in administration at a general hospital, so I’m worried I might run into someone I know.

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here as well. Since occupations are stored only as text in the database, it isn’t possible to extract them and calculate the exact numbers. But my impression is that the ratio of employed doctors to doctors with their own practices is about 3:1. That’s why, when a nurse from a general hospital came in to register, she was similarly worried about being recognized. In that case, we registered her with a blurred photo so that only the blurred image appeared in the wom…
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Tips 📅 Feb 28, 2019 19:21

I'm a registered woman. I had an opportunity to find out what class I'd been assigned to, and I was really surprised to see that it was set much higher than I expected. I don't want to disappoint male members, and since I'm barely receiving any offers at the moment, I feel that perhaps I don't really measure up after all. If I don't receive any offers, then since I'm registered, I feel I'm only exposing myself to a higher risk of being ...

💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪: I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ Another option is to work on yourself and grow into someone who matches that level. I often hear about women lowering their standards, but whether those women are truly thriving is a separate issue. That said, if what you really mean is that you want to earn a lot of money, that’s a different matter. I decided to give an answer different from everyone else’s.
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Tips 📅 Feb 27, 2019 18:04

A question for members of both genders: If you’ve developed a good relationship and meet regularly, about how many times a year would be considered “just right”? I’m surprisingly unsure. Thank you in advance.

💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪: I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ I see mine once a month too… so about 10–12 times a year, I guess? Even then, if our conversations start to get dull, seeing each other once every two months gives us plenty to talk about. Here’s a story about a mistake I made in the past: I liked him so much that we started seeing each other four or five times a month, and eventually it became really exhausting. Hopefully, you can maintain a comfortable distance and build a relationship where you …
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Tips 📅 Feb 26, 2019 10:45

I learned about Host Love through Takita’s blog. I was shocked to see such cruel things being written about women in their 30s. There are lots of kind people here too, right?

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): I’ll answer this one too. There are plenty of kind men out there. That said, there are also a few who aren’t. That’s why the first date is usually just dinner. You can talk over the meal and get a sense of whether he’s kind, so I think you can feel at ease.
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Tips 📅 Feb 26, 2019 03:00

I’m considering signing up as a woman. I have the impression that all the women at dating clubs are mature, model-like types. Can women who don’t fit that image sign up too?

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa will answer as well. Women of all different types are registered, so I don’t think you need to worry too much about whether you fit a particular type. Men’s preferences do tend to follow certain patterns to some extent, but they’re not all the same. We’d love to have you come in and register.
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Tips 📅 Feb 26, 2019 00:28

My Main Source of Information Is an “Anonymous Q&A Box”!! A question from a 40-something Gold male member who joined three months ago. I feel like I’m finally starting to get a vague grasp of the rules, so I’m thinking it’s time to get serious. Since I’d like to enjoy myself within my limited budget, I’m torn between the following two options. Please advise this pitiful weakling, who lacks not only financial resources but also the decis...

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here—I’ll answer too. Since you’re already a member, I think it comes down to whether there are more Black or Platinum women on the member page you’re viewing who you’d like to make an offer to. If there are two or more Black women you’d like to meet, I’d probably go with: 1. Become a Black member and meet four Black women. If there aren’t any Black women you’d like to meet right now, or there’s only one, then I’d go with: 2. Become a Platinum member and meet 12 …
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Tips 📅 Feb 25, 2019 23:47

I’m the foolish male member who did a Partners Check but never got in touch. What exactly is a “gentlemanly male member”?

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here. One of the requirements for becoming a member is being a gentleman, but that phrase is very vague—even in Japanese. Still, while it may be difficult to define exactly what a gentleman is, I think most people have a fairly clear idea of what a non-gentleman is. For example, someone who verbally abuses others. I think almost everyone would agree that such a person is not a gentleman. The same goes for people who secretly take photos or force someone into doing…
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Tips 📅 Feb 25, 2019 08:42

This is more of a request than a question, but I prefer tall, slim, model-like body types. Could you add weight as a cross-search filter to make searching more efficient?

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here. Thank you for your suggestion. Now that you mention it, being able to search by weight would be useful too. Anyone who doesn’t need that option could simply leave it out of their search criteria. So I asked the person who develops the program directly, and they said, “From a programming standpoint, adding that feature wouldn’t be particularly difficult.” However, it would require internal discussions and approval procedures to determine whether a specificati…
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Tips 📅 Feb 25, 2019 05:44

I’m a male member. In Mr. Maezawa’s answer, he said that only four male members have completed the partner check. I’m sorry to ask, but is that really true? Don’t male members have any opportunity to report whether they’ve undergone testing? I underwent testing by mail through the preventive-care program advertised on your company’s website, but I was not told that the results would, of course, be shared with your company. I also don’t ...

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): I’ll answer this as well. > “Don’t male members have any opportunity to let women know whether they’ve been tested?” I’m sorry we haven’t explained this clearly enough. I’ll ask our production team to add that information to the Partners Check information page going forward. (We haven’t decided exactly how it will be presented yet.) Here’s the process: 1. After taking the Partners Check, once you receive the results, send an image of them to Universe by email or LINE. …
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Tips 📅 Feb 24, 2019 22:45

I had a Partners Check six months ago, but I didn’t know that “Members who have taken a Partners Check are expected to inform their partner.” There must be more people who have been tested but the club simply isn’t aware of them. Do we report the test to the club by email, or have it added to our profile? By the way, does anyone know of a clinic in the Nagoya area that you’d recommend for a Partners Check?

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here—I’ll answer as well. > There may be more people getting tested, even if the club simply isn’t aware of them. After reading this question, I wondered whether some people may have taken the test but failed to report it. The process is for you to take the Partners Check and then email the results image to Universe. Once you send it in, we add a note to the message shown to women when an offer is made, along the lines of: “We appreciate your cooperation with our …
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Tips 📅 Feb 23, 2019 11:46

I always enjoy reading the anonymous Q&A and other content. Since the exchanges are so entertaining, I’d love to get to know the staff and column writers better. Are there ever any opportunities or events like that? Honestly, it would be great if we could have drinks together, but I’d definitely be interested in attending something like a roundtable discussion as well.

💬 Answer from 逢沢 大和: Aizawa from the Tokyo branch here. As columnist Saito mentioned, we currently do have events held in a party format. Female members attend as well, but since our staff don’t arrange introductions or anything like that, they’re more like social mixers. Some men say they’re not interested in meeting other men, but I actually know several male members who became good friends with someone they met there. We also see these parties as valuable opportunities for members to talk w…
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Tips 📅 Feb 23, 2019 07:41

There is a Showa-era (or perhaps early Heisei-era?) association of ideas—“mistress = no condom = the Pill”—so I’m somewhat perplexed when people heckle me (thank you) by calling something that “obvious” vulgar or perverted. Still, I suppose it may be unavoidable in the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) era of the late Heisei period… I find myself increasingly lamenting the decline (?) of the mistress tradition. The fact that cond...

💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪: > I feel like there isn’t really much difference between finishing inside and finishing outside, either. This is Saito♪, who burst out laughing at Takita’s answer. ↑ It doesn’t really mean anything deep, so please don’t give it too much thought. Truth and appearances never fully align forever, do they...? Japan’s politics make that obvious enough. We tell children not to bully others and to greet people properly... Yet the adult world is even harsher. I feel like i…
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Tips 📅 Feb 22, 2019 22:56

An anonymous Q&A box is getting heated over the topic of condoms. I still love it. Lately, my personal feeling has been, “You vulgar perverts! I’m following you!” How is everyone doing? Personally, as someone who favors mutually agreed-upon unprotected encounters—in secret—I’ve been quietly working on my strategy of starting with protection at the first meeting, then proposing a regular arrangement without it. Sorry for the long preambl...

💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪: I’m Saito, the column writer♪ Nonta… lol I’m one of them too… LMAO So, effectively, two out of the three are column writers. There are nearly 3,000 people, and only three of us… https://universe-club.jp/information/25449/ I laughed so hard. I pay around ¥70,000 for a 30-item screening. It’s the kind that checks everything from your mouth onward.
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Tips 📅 Feb 22, 2019 15:48

Is it okay to mention my sexual preferences in my profile as a man? For example, “I like ○○ play.” Likewise, is it okay to write things like: “I prefer going bare,” “I’m a bareback person,” or “NO SKIN NO LIFE”? The reason I want to include this is to subtly make women wonder, “I wonder if he’ll ask me for that?”

💬 Answer from 木田(社長): Our representative, Kida, will answer. So, you’re hoping to increase your chances of being matched with women who are okay with it by hinting in your profile that you prefer going without protection? I suppose that’s a kind of game in itself. If you ask whether there’s a problem with it, technically there is—but the male profile is a free-form section, so staff won’t intervene over wording like that. That said, the comment section is where male members’ personalities come …
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Tips 📅 Feb 22, 2019 14:40

I’m a male member. After an offer is approved by the woman, finalized, and paid for, is it possible for the male member to communicate directly with the female member about the date details? At the moment, the club acts as a go-between to coordinate our preferences, confirm the date the day before, and handle situations such as lateness. Personally, I feel it would be more efficient to coordinate everything ourselves and take responsibi...

💬 Answer from 前澤(スタッフ): Maezawa here. Unfortunately, at the moment, it isn’t possible to communicate directly before the date. Part of the reason is that the system works by having Universe handle the arrangements after receiving a setting fee. That said, if there’s something you’d like us to convey, we can pass along messages as needed. It may not feel very efficient, but we can accommodate your preferences to some extent. Of course, if you were to sign something like a written agreement statin…
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Tips 📅 Feb 21, 2019 20:26

Nice to meet you. I’m a woman considering signing up. I read about what was discussed during an interview on someone’s blog. It sounded like they were asked questions about sex and things like that. What kinds of questions are you asked during the interview? Even just within what you’re comfortable sharing would be helpful, as it would let me prepare myself mentally. Thank you in advance.

💬 Answer from 木田(社長): Kida here, answering your question. I’m replying off the cuff without even looking at the blog post. Sorry. During interviews for female applicants, asking about sex is something I specifically instructed the staff to do. Of course, as Takita wrote, we only dig deeper when it could be one of the woman’s strengths. And naturally, some applicants may be uncomfortable answering questions about sex, especially if the interviewer is male. So why do I tell the staff to “ask abo…
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