A question for members of both genders: If you’ve developed a good relationship and meet regularly, about how many times a year would be considered “just right”? I’m surprisingly unsure. Thank you in advance.

I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ I see mine once a month too… so about 10–12 times a year, I guess? Even then, if our conversations start to get dull, seeing each other once every two months gives us plenty to talk about. Here’s a story about a mistake I made in the past: I liked him so much that we started seeing each other four or five times a month, and eventually it became really exhausting. Hopefully, you can maintain a comfortable distance and build a relationship where you both grow together.

Maezawa here. I’m not a member, so I may be a little out of touch, but I feel that meeting about once a month makes for a comfortable arrangement. That said, if you really like someone, I imagine you’d end up meeting two or three times a month.