Our representative, Kida, will answer.
So, you’re hoping to increase your chances of being matched with women who are okay with it by hinting in your profile that you prefer going without protection?
I suppose that’s a kind of game in itself. If you ask whether there’s a problem with it, technically there is—but the male profile is a free-form section, so staff won’t intervene over wording like that.
That said, the comment section is where male members’ personalities come through. I don’t think you have to write only things that sound impressive, but if I were a woman, I think I’d be happy to see something like this:
“Once we’ve gotten to know and trust each other, I would prefer an intimate relationship without protection, and I’m looking for a woman who shares those values. Of course, I’d like us to agree on terms that we’re both comfortable with. I understand this is a difficult request, but I’d like to suggest an arrangement that takes the woman’s health into consideration as much as possible.”
Hmm… does that come across as creepy instead?
If this kind of wording becomes too common, the management may have to reconsider. But there may be women who appreciate men who openly state their preferences like this, so why not give it a try?
That said, please understand that if the woman ultimately refuses to go without protection during the relationship, she is not at all to blame.
Incidentally, “no skin, no life” means “life without protection is impossible,” or “protection is essential,” so wouldn’t it actually mean the opposite?
I also thought Nonta’s suggestion was lovely. However, it could end up looking like something the club itself recommends, so that would be a little difficult.
Maezawa here—I’ll answer as well.
As for what’s written in the profile, I don’t think the details of exactly what’s prohibited were ever clearly established. So even if you write the same thing, it may be acceptable at one branch and not at another.
That said, it’s not as if anything goes. As Ito also mentioned, explicitly stating an amount is definitely prohibited.
Writing about your personal preferences, such as “I like ○○ play,” might just about be acceptable. However, if you write, “I’m looking for someone who will do ○○ play with me because I like it,” some branches may reject it.
There’s also a chance it could be rejected if the ○○ is a banned or explicit term.
Similarly, “I like things raw” might be okay, since it could technically refer to raw food and be difficult to interpret definitively. But “I like having S〇X raw” could be rejected.
And even if it isn’t rejected, I feel it would probably reduce your chances of receiving an offer. Even if your profile is approved and you go on a date, that doesn’t mean you’ll get what you want.
If she says, “What you like and what I like are different, so I can’t agree to that,” then your hopes probably won’t be fulfilled after all.
Coming up with different strategies is part of the fun, too, so I hope you enjoy it—as long as no woman ends up saying she was pressured into anything.
