Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 May 11, 2025 12:45
How is it different from nightlife work? Lately, I’ve been approached by nightlife recruiters quite often. Some have told me, “I think you could work at a high-end place in Tokyo, like Ginza.” A close male friend of mine who’s a business owner and often goes out drinking says I’m not suited for it. It got me thinking: papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) comes with risks such as sexually transmitted infections, but are some women be...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Why not give it a try? You won’t know whether it suits you until you do.
The business owners you go drinking with might just be saying that because they won’t be able to go out drinking with you anymore.
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📅 May 11, 2025 01:13
I’ve only applied for an interview so far, and I’m a 26-year-old non-member. I’m thinking of choosing Type A. The reason is that sex genuinely scares me, and I probably place too much importance on my virginity being something sacred… Would there be even a little demand for a 26-year-old virgin choosing Type A? When I did papa-katsu on another app in the past, I was paid 5,000 yen each time for a two-hour dinner. There was one papa (a m...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
To answer seriously, there are certainly some men who want to offer women of Type A an arrangement without intimacy, although they’re relatively few.
However, the standards are pretty high.
A Type A woman once told me that she was taken to different wine bars every time and asked for her thoughts on each wine they drank.
She said it was always difficult because she wasn’t allowed to make the same kind of comment as before.
Sounds like *The Drops of God*.
Apparently, that…
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📅 May 8, 2025 17:15
My monthly arrangement partner, who has always treated me well, said he needed some time to sort out his thoughts about our relationship. It’s only been a day, but I still haven’t heard back from him. Should I assume that our relationship is over?
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
Me too, a little!
I think there’s a good chance the relationship has ended, but it might be best to wait and see for a while. I don’t think you should jump to conclusions too quickly.
In my case, I tell them I’ll keep seeing them until they want to stop. Maybe that’s why, but I keep getting invitations anyway. I really should be quitting soon, though—what’s going on?
More importantly, my attempts to recruit a successor have been a complete failure! I can’t seem to get thin…
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📅 May 8, 2025 14:19
The photo they took for my profile is so awful that I feel like I probably won’t get any offers. I think the photos I took myself on my iPhone look better. If the main photo isn’t your type, you probably wouldn’t even bother viewing the profile, right? I’m not sure how it’s displayed on the men’s side, though.
💬 Answer from 高坂 楓（スタッフ）:
Our staff member Kosaka will answer as well.
Our staff members receive training in photography, but after that, everyone develops their own style. Since we’re not professionals, differences in results are inevitable, depending on factors such as experience.
Even if your profile photos aren’t great, there are plenty of ways to appeal to men. A well-written profile, for example, can still make them think, “Oh, interesting.”
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📅 May 8, 2025 14:10
I can’t afford to take another year to prepare for my exams, so I’m thinking about selling my virginity. How much could I realistically get? Is there anything I can do to raise the price?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Being a virgin doesn’t mean your appearance can be anything and still be accepted. In the end, looks are important.
Also, once a virgin has an adult relationship (intimate) even once, she is no longer a virgin. So rather than focusing only on that one occasion, it’s important to think strategically about the following year: “How much would this man be willing to spend on me over the course of a year?”
In other words, you need to find a man who wants a long-term relationship…
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📅 May 8, 2025 10:29
Is it harder to get offers if you have tattoos or smoke?
💬 Answer from 石橋 誠一（スタッフ）:
Ishibashi from the staff here. I’d rather have neither, but if you have other strong selling points, I think you’ll still receive offers.
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📅 May 5, 2025 02:12
I’m scheduled to go on a date tomorrow with a woman I made an offer to through Patro. She agreed as well, and the system shows that the date has been confirmed. The setup fee has also been settled. About three days ago, I sent her a message with the meeting place and time, asking her to confirm that everything was okay. However, she hasn’t replied—or even appeared online. Since it’s now the day before the date, I sent another message as...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I understand how you feel, but this kind of thing happens to a certain extent in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so you’ll have to accept that it’s sometimes unavoidable.
If you go tomorrow and get a last-minute cancellation, your points will be refunded, so you can make another offer.
If you don’t like that, since you’re a club member, you could have the club make the offer for you.
I’ll share Fuu’s secret trick with you. This is honestly valuable enough to char…
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📅 May 3, 2025 03:41
I have a question about a female friend. At the time, she was a 21-year-old college student. While she was dating her first ex-boyfriend, apparently he made all of his ex-girlfriends take birth control pills and never used condoms. Around the time she started dating him, she messaged me on LINE: “Seriously, this guy is dangerous.” “He didn’t finish inside me, so I don’t think I’m pregnant, but isn’t this terrifying?” “Do you know about ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Around 7–9% of women still get pregnant even when taking low-dose birth control pills.
Putting that aside, once a man gets an STD even once, he gets scared and starts using condoms.
Going without one is only something the woman asks for—in my case, anyway. I’m in the higher-paying range when it comes to allowance, so I think women use going without a condom as a bargaining chip to keep me around.
There’s one woman in my monthly arrangement and one occasional partner who do…
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📅 May 2, 2025 22:56
How can I get my papa to increase my rate? Ideally, I’d like it to jump all at once to ¥400,000 or ¥500,000, like with hosts or cabaret clubs. But I have no idea how to make that happen. I want to make him feel good and inspire him to give me more on his own, without constantly talking about money. How do you get your clients to raise your rate and make tens or even hundreds of thousands in one go? I’d really appreciate any advice. Look...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Well, there’s no easy, dreamlike deal like that in the real world.
It sounds like H○ka, the Osaka hostess, was ultimately going all out for her big-spending clients, too.
You might have a chance if you have exceptional qualities and receive an offer from a wealthy, generous papa (a male supporter), but…
Unless you become No. 1 at a major hostess club and go all out for several big-spending clients, I don’t think what you’re hoping for is realistic. That’s simply the realit…
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📅 May 2, 2025 14:08
My papa keeps bragging about how accomplished his daughter is. She took an extra year before getting into Kawasaki Medical School, failed the national medical licensing exam once, passed on her second try, and apparently works as a doctor now. I looked up Kawasaki Medical School’s entrance difficulty score, and it was 60. I graduated from Tokyo Institute of Technology, which has a higher score. I know private and national universities m...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
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I see.
It’s okay—you’re doing great too.
Was that okay?
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📅 May 2, 2025 04:59
I’m still pretty new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). How can I get my papa (a male supporter) to increase my allowance? Ideally, I’d like it to jump all at once to ¥400,000 or ¥500,000, like with hosts or cabaret clubs. But I don’t know how to go about it. I want to make him feel so good that he’ll want to give me more on his own, without me constantly talking about money. How do you all get your customers to raise your rat...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
This feels like a bait question, so I’ll take the bait!
It’s true that there are papas (male supporters) who give 500,000 or 400,000 yen for just one dinner a month—and they continue doing so. Apparently, even if they have a fight, they come back again.
If, like the person asking this question, both people place value on money above all else, that kind of arrangement is possible.
That said, in such cases, I imagine you would have already achieved it by now. Apparently, som…
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📅 Apr 29, 2025 12:58
I just started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and had an adult relationship (intimate) with someone I was meeting for the first time. It started with light kissing, then kissing and licking all over, deep kissing, going down on me, light foreplay that became more intense, and trying various positions. Whenever I seemed uncomfortable, he would stop, give me a light kiss, stroke my head, speak to me gently, and wipe me off. Are ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’m sure it varies.
But to the person asking the question: were you okay with it, or did you dislike it?
A papa who can adapt to the woman he’s with is probably in the top 5%—a passing-grade papa.
Doing too much isn’t good, but neither is doing too little. Since he isn’t just focused on himself, I’d say he’s probably one of the better papas.
With girls who enjoy sex, Fuu does a lot of oral and foreplay, and gets more intense until they finish.
With cooler girls who aren’…
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📅 Apr 29, 2025 01:29
What’s going through a man’s mind when he masturbates while video-calling on LINE? Yesterday, the papa I’ve been seeing for about four years asked me to “show him your breasts” and “show him down there” while we were video-calling on LINE. Apparently, he had already taken off his pants, and while I was showing him, he started masturbating on his own and even ejaculated. Actually, this has happened three times now. The first time, we wer...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You made the first move, so you’ve awakened your papa’s kinks lol.
Maybe he keeps asking for remote masturbation because you’re doing it for free, without an allowance?
If you make it properly paid and suggest an allowance, maybe he’ll ask less often?
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📅 Apr 28, 2025 14:16
The other day, I was talking with some friends, and the topic came up: Who would you rather date—a handsome guy who’s 165 cm tall, an average-looking guy who’s 180 cm, or a slightly overweight, average-looking guy who’s 165 cm? Our opinions were split right down the middle. Which one would you rather date?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Which would you prefer: a stunningly beautiful woman who just lies there, or an average-looking woman who’s very responsive and enthusiastic?
I guess it comes down to personal preference, lol.
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📅 Apr 27, 2025 23:35
Is there anyone looking for a serious, exclusive connection? Lately, I’ve been looking for someone who wants to connect exclusively with each other, but I’m finding it a little difficult...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
Me too, to some extent.
In my case, I found someone relatively easily.
I’ve been seeing the same woman for eight years now. For the first six months or so, we weren’t exclusive, but as Mac mentioned, we both prioritized protecting our identities and preventing sexually transmitted infections, and I think that naturally led to us becoming exclusive.
During the first year, I was constantly eager to make new offers, but after that, our relationship became stable, and I gradua…
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📅 Apr 27, 2025 07:17
A papa who changes the amount depending on whether protection is used or not sees women as objects, right? He offered ¥80,000 without protection and ¥50,000 with it. I’m scared he might have an STI.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Originally, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is about paying for sex, so I don’t think it’s all that different.
The woman’s side sees her papa (a male supporter) as money, right? She wouldn’t have sex with him without payment.
Personally, I wouldn’t call him a “thing.” He’s still a person—someone who makes me feel really good.
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📅 Apr 25, 2025 14:36
I haven’t made any connections at all since signing up...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Right now, it’s mostly the same person repeatedly posting prank questions.
When that’s all there is, newcomers don’t feel comfortable asking questions, and since the posts aren’t useful to anyone, genuine consultations gradually disappear.
Of course, having some questions is better than having none, but is this really a situation we should just accept as it is…?
How far has this drifted from the site’s original purpose…?
Are we going to remain in a situation where someone…
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📅 Apr 25, 2025 07:29
Is the amount of sperm released during ejaculation proportional to how good it feels? Sometimes my papa (a male supporter) ejaculates a large amount. Does that mean it felt better than usual?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
When it’s day after day, I sometimes can’t ejaculate much, so I feel like it’s more pleasurable when I leave some time in between and then release a larger amount.
However, if I wait four or more days, it’s as if my body forgets how to ejaculate, and I sometimes can’t get hard.
Maybe I’ll share some random thoughts too. Miu, the Type B girl I wrote about in my column, has decided to get married.
I recommended dating apps and a matchmaking agency, paid her enrollment and me…
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📅 Apr 24, 2025 04:01
【Men with extreme kinks are terrifying】 I’m a C-type female member, so I’ll go to someone’s room if the terms of the arrangement are acceptable. But a certain percentage of them completely change the moment we enter the room and start forcing their extreme kinks on me, even though they seemed fine over tea. Specifically: - Choking me (seriously enough that I can’t breathe) - Forcing enemas and scat play - Insisting on filming me against...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
People’s preferences vary widely, so there are certainly some who have the kinds of interests the questioner describes. Naturally, it’s reasonable to assume that some members of Uchu Club are like that as well. Among them, there may even be people who engage in things that can’t be done at adult entertainment venues, as you mentioned.
That said, people with those preferences are probably the exception. So if you’ve ended up meeting several men like that, I think there may al…
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📅 Apr 23, 2025 16:39
Could you tell me what information is required to register as a new female member?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Do you mean what kinds of questions you’ll be asked during the interview?
Or do you mean things like height and weight, and how much information is requested about those?
Either way, knowing in advance wouldn’t really help, since you’re expected to provide truthful information, so there’s nothing you can really prepare for. As for what they ask, it also varies depending on the staff member, making it difficult to prepare beforehand. In fact, asking questions unexpectedly ma…