My papa often brings up girls he used to see, so I asked why they broke things off. He replied a little sharply, “Don’t ask me about that.” I apologized right away, but he seemed down for the rest of the day.
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I feel like I stepped on a landmine with my papa, but is asking why he broke up with a previous PJ really that taboo?
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That kind of thing doesn’t bother me.
It may be the same for both male and female members, but you never know where you’ll run into a person to avoid, right? lol
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I don’t really understand why a man would bring something up himself and then get upset about it, but…
It sounds like it wasn’t so much that they broke up as that they lost touch, or that the relationship ended even though he didn’t want it to.
So I feel like it may have been better not to ask too much about it.
If the man was the one who ended things, he probably did so because he no longer wanted to continue. In that case, he likely wouldn’t talk about the woman he was with before.
So, to be safe, I think it’s probably best not to ask.
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It’s basically like, “Then don’t bring it up in the first place.”
Sounds like the papa (a male supporter) was unconsciously still hung up on it and felt awkward.
If you’d like to keep seeing him, I think you should give him a cute apology and continue being friendly with him as before.
Though, personally, I do think he sounds like a pretty immature papa.
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If he brings up a woman from his past himself, then gets annoyed when you ask about her, he’s partly to blame too.
That said, try to read the atmosphere. He’s probably telling you those stories because he wants you to treat him the way that woman did, or give him similar experiences. Probably.
So I think the right response would be something like, “I’ll do my best not to lose to her♡” Probably.
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