My papa (a male supporter) used to take me to a luxury hotel after dinner, but lately he’s been taking me to his second-home condo instead (we’ve known each other for a year). He seems to have bought it a few months ago, but unless a condo is cleaned thoroughly every day, it can’t match the cleanliness of a luxury hotel, right? Why would he even consider making that choice? I honestly don’t understand.

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In reality, it’s dusty and dirty, and it lacks that clean feeling, so I feel uncomfortable and uneasy there. I’m starting to lose the motivation to meet him. How do you think he’d react if I told him I wanted to go to a luxury hotel instead? Do you think he’d take me back to a luxury hotel if I reduced how often we meet?

Answer 1

This is Saito, the columnist ♪ I agree with Kazu’s opinion. Hotels are convenient because they change the sheets every time. Using an apartment or my own place is a hassle, so I don’t do that. The food-loving celebrity who was caught in a Roppongi restroom had arranged an office and an apartment to create a hookup room, but was found out before that.

Answer 2

He may think he’s cutting down on the cost of the relationship, but if that drives women away, he may eventually realize it was a foolish investment. Once he catches on, he might rent the place out—or have a girl live there. Though, of course, that has nothing to do with you. For now, all you can do is tell him that you’re not comfortable with it. Think about how to phrase it depending on the person. Marika

Answer 3

I’m Kazu, a male member. Business hotels are cleaned every day too, after all. If you prefer a hotel, I think you should simply ask him to use a hotel. You could say you’re willing to accept a lower allowance if he uses a hotel, and I think he’d probably change it back.

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