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Nov 20, 2021 10:19
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He keeps sending me multiple messages about random things we could just talk about when we meet. When I delay replying because it’s a hassle, he sends follow-up messages.
He’s funny and nice in person, but over LINE he’s boring and annoying, like a completely different person. If possible, I’d like to reduce how much we message.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
If your question is about wanting to reduce the frequency of your LINE messages, just keep replying with stickers only, and it’ll probably taper off eventually.
That said, if you’re not even trying to meet your papa’s requests, maybe you don’t really want him to like you—or to receive any more money from him.
When my papa messages me, I reply right away, and I respond to long messages with replies of a similar length. Even the most pointless conversations have something amusing about them, and I respond in a way that keeps the conversation going and makes him happy.
This kind of replying is the basics of client relations, so papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) becomes more enjoyable if you have fun with it. In a way, I think your LINE exchanges will become more enjoyable if you hone your comedy-style comeback skills. If you want to make serious money, give it a try.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Reducing your communication could end up leading to a breakup.
Instead, why not craft your replies in a way that makes him feel good and want to message you more on LINE?
That might bring you closer than you are now and work to your advantage.
Learn how to play an older guy like a fiddle.
By the way, I think men like me—who don’t use LINE for anything beyond keeping in touch—tend to be pretty detached.