It’s almost been a year since I joined, and I’m wondering whether to renew. Lately, I’ve found enough favorite girls to create a comfortable rotation, so I haven’t made any offers for nearly five months.
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Still, I sometimes wonder whether an even better girl might appear after I leave, while at the same time I feel that continuing to make offers might be unfair to the girls I’m currently seeing—because of health risks, disrupting their schedules, being cut off, and so on. I want to continue treating the girls I’ve met with care.
To those answering: Have you been making offers recently? How much longer do you plan to continue looking for new girls?
I hadn’t made an offer in quite some time, so I was thinking I’d probably make another one eventually.
But lately, I’ve been losing the desire to make any more offers, so I’ll probably just let my membership expire and leave the club. (My satisfaction with the club is actually quite high—it’s not because there aren’t any good women, just to be clear.)
Once you’ve settled into the feeling that you no longer need to make new offers, it’s perfectly fine to leave.
Just like changing jobs or getting married, once you’ve found what you’re looking for and things have settled down, there’s no longer any need to stay active.
Are you looking to find—or meet—one good person?
Or are you looking to keep pursuing relationships with one good person after another?
It really depends on your mindset and personality.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Once your rotation becomes stable, the number of offers does indeed decrease. There have even been times when I went six months without making an offer.
But sooner or later, the day comes when you suddenly have to say goodbye to one of your monthly partners.
Having to leave and sign up again is a hassle, and browsing profiles while thinking, “Who should I make an offer to after my next monthly arrangement ends?” is honestly one of my favorite things. That’s why I keep my membership active.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
I chose to remain a member by moving down to a lower tier.
There was a period of several months after renewing when I didn’t make any offers, but recently, after considering ending things with one woman, I decided to move back up a tier and make offers to several women.
My offers may be sporadic, but for now, I have no plans to quit.
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I’m a losing male member.
I’ve just left the Mandarin and am on my way by taxi.
I owe Universe Club a great deal, so I’ll remain a Black member forever.
It’s fun looking through the profiles whether I make an offer or not. I’m also waiting for one of my favorite adult film actresses to join.
I’m making fewer offers these days. That’s only natural since I currently make offers exclusively to Type A women.
If you make one Type A woman your monthly arrangement, your perspective on women will change, and you’ll gain a deeper understanding of dating clubs—which will make it even more enjoyable.
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