Tips Nov 19, 2021 15:42

The papas I’ve met so far have all stayed in the room for an hour or less, but the last person kept things going for nearly two hours. I was so put off. It was exhausting, killed the mood, and made it harder for me to get into it. Because he was so inconsiderate, I had no choice but to reject him, but what should I do if someone I meet in the future seems likely to keep things going for a long time? How can I avoid being stuck in a long session?

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Fuu
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I’m Fuu, a column writer. If you each take a separate 15-minute shower, that’s 30 minutes total. Try to hurry a little and make it 10 minutes each—that leaves 40 minutes for the rest, which is just enough time to get it over with quickly. I kind of feel sorry for your papa (a male supporter). For me, the standard date is: - Dinner: 1.5–2 hours - Time in a private room: 1.5–2 hours - Total: 3–4 hours If the questioner’s papa is in demand for just one hour, and he doesn’t want to spend more time than that, I think it would be best for them to part ways.
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A room stay of under an hour? LOL What is this, a love hotel in Osaka? So, is it really the kind of relationship where you just do what you came to do and then say goodbye? Well, every relationship is different, so if both people are okay with it, I suppose that’s fine. As for your question, you can simply tell them that staying that long is too much for you. If they can’t accept that, they’ll probably be the ones to end things. Marika
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Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here. It’s extremely difficult to change someone’s personality, so I think it’s better to accept that you weren’t compatible and choose to end things with that person. I believe the key to making things last is to only see people you’re compatible with—and, above all, to spend your time enjoying yourself.
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I’m Aya, a female member. I’d just tough it out, go home, and never see him again. If you ran away in the middle, he might lose his temper, then keep going on about it afterward and make you even more upset.
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I'm Kazu, a male member. Since this is a Q&A forum for dating clubs, I'm afraid I don't know much about prostitution. Sorry. If you're talking about prostitution, wouldn't it be enough to set a specific time?
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